'Quit playing sexual politics with children'

The editorial of Sept. 18 begins with the question, "Will same-sex marriage be taught in schools, if it becomes legal in Maine?" The answer, according to the writer, is a simple, declarative, "No," arrived at, we are told, because at the moment, "Nothing in law, or curriculum, mandates any Maine student be taught about marriage, same-sex or otherwise."

That is a strikingly narrow interpretation of Maine's pending same-sex marriage law. Mainers are to believe, because the law itself says nothing specific about what will be taught in schools, that same-sex marriage will never be taught in schools?

If same-sex marriage is made legal in Maine, no further changes to the law are necessary for it to be a school topic. The pending law redefines marriage as "the legally recognized union of two people." All references to marriage as one woman/one man are gone. When marriage is discussed in Maine classrooms, by law, it will have to include same-sex marriage.

Furthermore, would the Sun Journal have people believe that gay marriage activists, whose every action is to push their agenda whenever they can, will not push it in schools? There are sexual orientation protections, diversity education, ally sensitivity training, the Attorney General's Civil Rights Unit school lectures — but no discussion of gay marriage will happen in Maine schools?

The editorial's narrow view of the pending law is further strained in the description of the famous Parker v. Hurley federal court case. Bottom line: Same-sex marriage was legalized in Massachusetts. Now it's being taught in grade school. How can any reasonable person (or editorial writer) say beyond a shadow of a doubt that same-sex marriage won't be taught in Maine schools if it becomes legal?

But wait. By the end of the same editorial, the editorial writer seems to be rethinking his position. "Homosexual marriage" would be taught in Maine schools "only ... if there was a significant alteration of Maine's current academic curriculum and laws. ..." Of course, such teaching could also be approved under current law by a local school board.

"Parents," the editorial concludes, will not be "helpless if the prospect arises." That is, when the teaching of same-sex marriage in Maine schools takes place — parents can try to undo it. Good luck. Ask the Parker family how that worked out for them.

Here's a better idea. On Nov. 3, I encourage the public to cast a vote in favor of hanging on to Maine's marriage laws as they now stand — vote yes on Question 1. In so doing, people will send a message to those legislators and to Gov. John Baldacci who put the public in this mess: Quit playing sexual politics with children.

Bob Emrich, Plymouth

Executive committee, Stand for Marriage Maine

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Lisa Linowes's picture

Sorry Tron. What happens in

Sorry Tron. What happens in Maine affects everybody. I guess you're not aware of the Massachusetts same-sex male married couple who trotted off to Texas and decided to stay there (gee; imagine that) and are now filing for divorce. Keep in mind that the citizens of Texas added an amendment to their Constitution that banned same sex marriage. Now the divorcing couple found a judge who ruled their divorce can proceed (gee; imagine that). Because the judge did that, it's as good as saying the amendment is null and void; meaning it once again opens the door for same-sex marriage even though it was banned. Naturally there are lawyers standing by to appeal this. So you see, whatever State legalizes same-sex marriage, it opens Pandora's Box for the other States who have already banned it. So don't bother telling me to get lost, because I won't.

Lisa Linowes's picture

If same-sex marriage becomes

If same-sex marriage becomes law in Maine, your State will be swarming with gay activists armed and ready to visit your schools with their lesson plans. Is that what you want for your children?

tron's picture

if you're not of this state,

if you're not of this state, keep your bigoted fears to yourself. We don't need foreigners to tell us what to do. We're quite capable of making our own minds.

42flathead's picture

The entire basis of your

The entire basis of your opinion is that marriages between people of the same sex aren't as good as marriages between people of the opposite sex, and therefore don't deserve to be given attention. You are WRONG at your most basic point. Children with gay or lesbian parents are ALREADY in schools. Their families ALREADY matter, just like the children with straight parents matter. ALL children should feel like their familes are respected in their place of learning. That is what the current law does, and why everyone should vote NO on question one.

lewsres's picture

If you're afraid that

If you're afraid that marriage will be taught in schools, then you should also be afraid that someone like my daughter (who has two moms) might be in the same school as your child. She's a gentle compassionate inquisitive smart fun kid and she'll tell just about anyone who asks that she has two moms and she loves her family. If she mentions her family, then has she "taught" someone about same-sex marriage? If a kid with one mom and one dad mentions her/his family, are they "teaching" about marriage? There's nothing sexual when talking about your parents and your family. Would you say these same things to my 5 year old daughter? Would you suggest to her that her family is any less deserving of respect and dignity than your family? Would you suggest her family should not be discussed because she has two moms? Would you talk with my 5 year old daughter about sex? Her parents certainly don't talk with her about sex. Bringing sex into a conversation about children, schools, family rights, and marriage rights, is so inappropriate.

gemini's picture

lwaldal: "If she mentions

lwaldal: "If she mentions her family, then has she "taught" someone about same-sex marriage? If a kid with one mom and one dad mentions her/his family, are they "teaching" about marriage?"

It is appropriate for a child in school to discuss his/her family with her peers. It is not appropriate for an adult "authority" figure to "teach" young impressionable children about controversial subjects. Every child should be protected and nurtured in school. Any incidents of inappropriate behavior should be handled by school staff and parents. There is no need for extensive programs beyond the regular academic curriculum.

andrea815's picture

GAY OR NOT GAY WE ALL NEED

GAY OR NOT GAY WE ALL NEED TO GET OUT AND VOTE NO ON 1

bitetleinhelm's picture

Bob Emrich writes: "When

Bob Emrich writes:

"When marriage is discussed in Maine classrooms, by law, it will have to include same-sex marriage."

Perhaps he, or one of the Yes on 1 supporters, would cite this law, so that we could actually read it. Of course, should such a law exist, teaching of marriage in the classroom is a local decision, made by your local school board.

triumph's picture

So kids are going to hear

So kids are going to hear that some families have parents of the same gender. That's reality. Anyone who thinks a kid is going to hear that and change his or her orientation is simply a fool. Let's not let fools decide our kids education. And how come the haters can only come up with a wacko lawyer from Massachusetts to support their cause? If there were going to be lawsuits in Maine, why hasn't it happened in Massachusetts which has had gay marriage for 5 years?

monique's picture

Great letter, Bob. As Jesse

Great letter, Bob. As Jesse Connolly has admitted himself, this is not about LBGTQ rights, equality, fairness, or anything of the sort. It's not even about those mythical 1200 benefits that someone here keeps claiming come with marriage. It may not even be about love. Jesse Connolly, Ex.Dir. of the No on 1 contingent, in his thank you to OpenLeft for sending out of state "volunteers" to Maine to redefine marriage, Connolly says that so-called 'marriage equality' is "An Interconnected Movement. It's easy to silo issues and to view the Maine campaign solely as an LGBT campaign. But, it's more... It is about generating momentum for the progressive movement."

They will not stop their "movement" at the schoolyard. This will be aggressively pushed in our schools.

Lil's picture
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If you're going to put lies

If you're going to put lies out there, how about backing up your statement?
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"A conservative is a man with two perfectly good legs who, however, has never learned to walk forward."
Franklin D. Roosevelt

monique's picture

Happy to provide a link to

Happy to provide a link to the truth. Jesse Connolly just openly admitted what most of us have known all along...
http://www.openleft.com/diary/15263/maine-marriage-equality-and-openleft

andrea815's picture

Bob do you really think we

Bob do you really think we all as blind as you? It was the "Stand for Marriage Maine" group along with the church that brought the children into this. It is your groups that are trying to use them as a pawn. No matter the out come of this vote it is a relief to know that our children will not grow up with your views! You, your committee and the church are a blight to the advancement of equality and humanity. Luckily your views will not endure the test of time. In fact, if things do not change now it will be our children who will rid our society of archaic views like your’s. Perhaps, you already know this and that is what you are trying to prevent. Just as the views that supported slavery have passed in time so will your’s and Maine will be a better place for it. While you are giving thanks for your rights to express your views. Don’t forget to thank all the gay men and woman of the military that have fought for our country. Especially the one’s that have given their life in the name of freedom. Is this how you thank them Bob? I encourage you to make amends. Do them justice. Show them and their family’s that these people did not die in vain. Give your self peace of mind and vote NO on question one

gemini's picture

BruceJ says: "Bob do you

BruceJ says: "Bob do you really think we all as blind as you? It was the "Stand for Marriage Maine" group along with the church that brought the children into this."

Please paste the links below in your web browser and judge for yourself in regard to the influence in our schools.

http://mainefamilypolicycouncil.com/artman/publish/Maine_3/David_Parker_...
http://americansfortruth.com/issues/youth-and-schools

Jabba's picture
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A liberal is a person so

A liberal is a person so open minded that their brains have fallen out. Proof positive.

Lil's picture
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Boy, that's some twisted

Boy, that's some twisted logic there. Basically, what you're trying to do is combine two unrelated laws (state learning results, same sex marriage) into one extreme boogeyman outcome. And comparing education laws in Massachusetts to Maine education laws is also misleading. How come the haters can only come up with lies, distortions, hate, and fear to mislead voters? And Mass. has allowed same sex marriage the longest, and has the lowest divorce rate in the country.
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"A conservative is a man with two perfectly good legs who, however, has never learned to walk forward."
Franklin D. Roosevelt

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