AUBURN — A Lewiston woman who was transitioning from being male to female is suing Denny's Restaurant in Auburn, claiming it discriminated against her when it barred her from the women's bathroom.
Brianna Freeman, 44, filed a civil suit Thursday in Androscoggin County Superior Court against Realty Resources Hospitality, doing business as Denny's of Auburn.
Freeman said she is a regular customer at the 211 Court St. restaurant and meets friends there for meals three to four times a week. In June or July 2007, Freeman met with the restaurant manager and explained that she was using the women's bathroom in accordance with her female gender identity, which was part of her medically recommended gender transition process. Freeman wears women's clothing, make-up, jewelry and perfume.
That manager, Ginger Smith, told Freeman she would be allowed to continue using the women's bathroom.
In October 2007, a new manager told Freeman she could no longer use the women's bathroom because Denny's perceived her as biologically male. She has been prohibited from using the women's room since because Denny's personnel view her as a man, the suit says.
Freeman continues to visit the restaurant, but has been forced to reduce the amount of time she spends there because of the new restriction, which poses a health and safety risk to her.
She was diagnosed with Gender Identity Disorder in 2007, "a rare but serious medical condition listed in a manual of mental disorders published by the American Psychiatric Association," the suit says. The disorder is characterized by persistent and often intense discomfort with one's assigned sex and with one's primary and secondary sex characteristics, the suit says. This conflict can create intense emotional pain and suffering that is intractable, severe and often incapacitating. If left medically untreated, this condition can result in dysfunction, debilitating depression and, for some people, incidents of self-harm, including suicide.
Freeman claims she was discriminated against based on her sexual orientation, a violation of state law, by not allowing her use of a public accommodation. She claims Denny's discriminated against her use of public accommodation based on her disability, also a violation of state law.
Freeman is seeking to have the court order Denny's to allow her to use the women's bathroom and award her civil penal, compensatory and punitive damages, including damages for mental anguish and emotional distress. She also is seeking to have the court order Denny's to pay her legal expenses.
The Maine Human Rights Commission ruled there were reasonable grounds to believe that Denny's discriminated against Freeman on the basis of sexual orientation, but not on the basis of disability.
Phone calls to Denny's for comment were not returned Friday.

Transgendered is one of the
Transgendered is one of the biggest crock-of-crap terms out there. Either you are male or female. And either you are happy about it or you are not. There are lots of people out there depressed for lots of reasons (infertility, death of a loved one, short stature, big breasted, etc. etc.) We can't expect restaraunts to refuse children because some infertile couple may be offended or uncomfortable... the infertile couple will just have to stay home or deal with it. It should be no different here. Just because he's depressed at being male doesn't mean that all us women should be forced to share a bathroom with a man. He should stay home or deal with it.
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Also, I love how the article says that he "IS a regular customer" of Denny's. So, he still patronizes this restaurant that he claims disciminated against him? Maybe he is hoping he will recover the money he has spent there if he wins a judgement.....
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don't we have more important issues to worry about? poor denny's they see it all. i can't believe aa attorney took this on too!! and do people just sit around wondering what they will do to get money these days, get out of denny's and go get a JOB and you wouldn't have to sue . I would have been pissed if i was there and this thing wanted to go in the ladies room. i hope this idiot doesn't get anything.
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Yes, hopefully "Brianna," or Bruce as was the name his parent's gave him, doesn't get a nickel out of this. It is truly amazing the lengths some people will go to in order to get their 15 minutes of fame.
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In my eyes If you were born a with tool (and a sack with nuts) to stand up and hold onto while you pee... Your a MALE.. If you don't have one of these things and don't have a sack then your more then likely a "Female" What so hard about figuring that out??? Dam don't they have "Sex Ed" in school anymore?? and whats with the Mom's and Dad's explaining to thier Kids the diffrence between "Male and Female" Hey lets go one step further!! why don't we just have "All Resturants-Bars and other places of Buss add another Bathroom for those people that don't have a clue if thier "Male or Female"
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Here is what Maine law says about discrimination of transgendered and otherwise
http://www.maine.gov/mhrc/laws/Sexual_Orientation_Adopted_Rule.htm
I think she's got a case. I also think the new manager is in deep doo doo for being such a knucklehead.
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The individual might have a case, but not with the law you are referring to. That law deals with employment, rental housing and real estate transactions.
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I know what it deals with, but the first paragraph defines sexual orientation as Maine law sees it. It can very easily be applied to this case.
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Ok fine, let him use the womans room......but I don't want any complaining if the toilet seat is left up!
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She identifies herself as a woman, a female... and quite possibly since she was a little child. i think that this really doesn't matter if they have 'the stuff' or not-having 'the stuff' doesn't (in my eyes) dictate in anyone else's world, what bathroom to use or how to dress. despite having some kind of operation or not-its really no ones business if she wants to use the woman's restroom.
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The world has gone mad!
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I guess it would boil down to one thing: if Bruce...oh sorry.....Brianna....still has a penis, then the men's room it is. If not, then he should use the ladies.
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Which restroom one uses is not open to debate. Have a penis? Use this one. No penis? Use that one. Where exactly does "discrimination" come into it?
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Which restroom one uses is not open to debate. Have a penis? Use this one. No penis? Use that one. Where exactly does "discrimination" come into it?
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Ok, Queenhoneybee, you make absolutely NO sense. A human being can not be BOTH male and female, therefore, they MUST be ONE or the OTHER. If he is MALE, having not yet completed the sex reassignment, then HE should use the MEN's room. AFTER the reassignment, when SHE no longer has MALE sexual organs, THEN SHE should use the LADIES room. Get real. Your political correctness is not only disgusting, but only furthers the cause of nuisance lawsuits like this one. This is not a situation where anyone was discriminated against! How hard is it to determine male or female and point them towards the correct rest room? Penises go here. Simple as that. Discrimination has NOTHING to do with it, except in the twisted world of pink-in-the-middle social liberal know-nothings like you.
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apparently you've never heard of hermaphrodite s
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sick and tired... yawn*
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Can I sue Denny's on behalf of myself or my 5 year old great granddaughter in my care when our sensibilities are disturbed by finding an individual with all the equipment that goes with having a Y chromosone is in the ladies room with us? And not to clean the toilets.
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Brianna Freeman deserves to be respected and treated like a human being. Unfortunately, suing Denny's may be what Transgendered community needs for companies to take them seriously. Discrimination has NO place in our State!
EQUALITY FOR EVERYONE! =]
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How the HELL is allowing A MAN into A WOMAN'S restroom EQUALITY?
What about the REAL women that need to use that facility? What about their RIGHT to go to the bathroom with A MAN in the room?
Seriously, some of you are effing WACKED!
HE IS A MAN!!!!!!! Cut it off, keep it on, YOU ARE STILL A MAN! A sick man, but A MAN nonetheless.
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First, was there really a need to approach the manager and discuss the situation? If somehow someone had a complaint then a discussion with the manager would have been appropriate. Second, is a lawsuit really needed? Could a letter from a lawyer along with a phone call have settled this matter? It doesn't say in the article so I am guessing that no intermediate steps were taken prior to the lawsuit. We need more conversations and fewer lawsuits. Who is to say what the outcome would be if Denny's corporate management was contacted? Maybe a clarification of company policies and some education about people with this disorder. If it is not about the money will Brianna accept an outcome like this and maybe lawyers fees? I wonder.
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Penal damages seem appropriate.
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sounds like another rediculous lawsuit just trying to get money .
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momof4...........I pray to God that none of your children ever have to tell you that they are gay or struggling with some other sexual related issue. I have read so many of your comments on here and you are so closed minded and hateful!! I would feel so sad for your kids if one of them had to tell YOU they were gay. That would be worth then the trip to hell you'd tell them they were destined for.
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"Freeman continues to visit the restaurant, but has been forced to reduce the amount of time she spends there because of the new restriction, which poses a health and safety risk to her."
Huh? How does this pose a health and safety risk? Does this person sit there all day? Potty before and after going to Denny's, how hard is that?
This sounds frivolous at best, and I can't even believe an attorney would take this on. Ridiculous...
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She should not have said anything and just used the woman's bathroom. If the Manager approached her than explain the situation. Seems to me that it was an attention thing. I'm sure there are stall doors in the bathroom. There could have been a compromise, if she used the stall she would be allowed to use the woman's bathroom.
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Momof4(5), Do you share all your lovely posts with your children? You set such a good example of motherly kindness and compassion. I bet they're proud of you. Nice family values.
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Such is the level of discourse in this nation.
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Unfortunately, the right wing wackos have lead down that road.
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“She” needs to go home and use “her “restroom. I wouldn’t want “her” in the men’s room with me, and I wouldn’t blame women for not wanting “her” in their restroom with them. And if I saw “her” enter a restroom occupied by my daughter, I would be dragging (pun intended) “her” out by her cheap wig.
“She” made a CHOICE, now “she” should be the one to accommodate “her”self. Denny’s shouldn’t have to bend over backwards for a select few perverts who decide to TRY to change their sexual identity.
What’s crazy about this whole thing is there are some people who will claim that it is “her” CIVIL RIGHT to use the women’s room. It is SICK what this world is coming to.
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Didn't we just do this one? Boy parts - mens room, girl parts - ladies room, or - PB4UGO
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Hey, Gil. Gee, that's a patriotic picture you have---a likeness of President Obama urinating on a map of America. Your god must be proud of you.
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Looks to be a fairly accurate portrayal.
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People are making some unfair assumptions here. A transgendering person is not necessarily looking for cheap thrills in a bathroom, chances are the person simply has to go! I would think Denny's would prefer this person to use the ladies room - lot less chance of some idiot assaulting her. I do wonder if the new manager was male and the previous manager (who gave permission for ladies room) female?
On the other hand I don't understand why this person even had to talk to the manager about it. If a person is dressed like a woman who's going to even think twice if they use the ladies room?
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Nobody made that assertion/assumption in these comments (at this point).
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No way anyone can win in a situation like this. Most every person with female parts is going to be extremely uncomfortable having and adult with male parts in the women's bathroom with them or their children. Those with male parts are going to be uncomfortable with someone with male parts decked out like a woman in the men's restroom with them or their children. A unisex third restroom can and is often oftered for handicapped and family use these days but that is expense in real estate and maintenance for the establishment which passes the costs on to we the consumers.
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Does anyone truly believe that it would have been less disruptive to Denny's to have her use the men's room while wearing woman's clothes, jewelry and makeup? Since both rooms have stall doors it would likely take an acoustics expert to venture a guess at the sex of the person in the next stall anyway. While businesses should remain vigilant that no one is sliding over to the other bathroom just to get their "jollies," there is no evidence of that here.
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Penis= men's room. Vagina= lady's room. No rocket science here.
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Does Freeman have male or female sex organs? Case closed use the appropriate bathroom.
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All one can say is WHAT NEXT!!!!
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Think of how society is being turned on its head here. Not so long ago medical and psychological specialists would have recommended this man undergo intensive therapy(and many still would). But because of political pressure, now everyone else is expected to participate in his delusion.
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