After reading editorials from other Catholics, I think a distinction is needed between defining Maine families and marriage. Stand for Marriage is not about discrimination of the gay community.

First, natural law tells us something about the body that is evident in and of itself. Natural law also tells us that the body was designed for the procreative act of husband and wife.

Secondly, for Catholics, divine law elevates marriage to being a source of grace for couples. Scripture is clear, a man and a woman join together in a complementary way becoming one flesh.

The church has spoken out in favor of laws that protect domestic partnerships because family matters. The Catholic Church was criticized for supporting this law but stood strong because of the dignity of individuals and their right to fair treatment.

Same-sex partner relationships must be defined differently because of the intrinsic nature of marriage between one man and one woman.

Defining marriage as any two consenting adults without distinctions introduces a dangerous precedent. Society recognizes that not all people have the "right" to marry. Example, a father cannot marry his daughter, etc. Such a situation inherently makes marriage impossible.

As Catholics, when our bishop speaks, he does so in solidarity with the Apostles who handed down the teachings of Jesus. Yes, following Jesus is challenging.

Let's strengthen laws protecting genuine civil rights without changing the definition of marriage. Marriage between one man and one woman matters.

Join me in voting "yes" on Question 1.

Ruth H. Oakley, Auburn