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Scott Taylor, Staff Writer

Lewiston-Auburn |

Saturday, October 31, 2009

LEWISTON — A local Catholic woman has lost her position as a lay minister at the Prince of Peace Parish churches this week after penning a newspaper column in support of legalizing same-sex marriages.

Pamella Starbird Beliveau, 47, of 40 Hillcrest Ave., said she met with Monsignor Marc Caron on Wednesday and was notified in writing Thursday that she had been dismissed as a lector and as a Eucharistic minister.

Her column, "A committed marriage is a worthy aspiration," appeared in the Oct. 18 edition of the Sun Journal.

"We were both very sad that it had come to this point, but I was treated with the utmost respect," Beliveau said. "I take no pleasure in being in conflict with my pastor."

Beliveau was not surprised by the dismissal, she said.

"The Catholic Church has every right to determine who can and cannot minister," she said. "I fully respect that."

Beliveau has been a member of the parish for 20 years, and a lector, reading for parish Masses at the Basilica of Saints Peter and Paul. She has also been a lay Eucharistic minister for much of that time.

The Sun Journal contacted her by phone Friday night after word of her dismissal had spread. It was mentioned in an Oct. 30 open letter to the Maine Council of Churches that defended Ann Underwood, a Catholic member of the council, for her support of same-sex marriage.

Beliveau said she wanted to keep people focused on the issue of same-sex marriage.

"I do not want this to become about me and my ministry with the church," she said. "I want to keep our eyes on the issue. This is about equality for the gay and lesbian friends, neighbors and family that live and work and love in our state."

Beliveau said she was told she could ask to return to her ministry through a tribunal process.

"I will be there on Sunday," she said. "I am a Catholic."

Neither the Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland nor Monsignor Caron could be reached for comment Friday night.

staylor@sunjournal.com

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Was it necessary to list her

By Herb Bacheller, verified user — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 09:32

Was it necessary to list her home address so that some zealot can now stalk her? Shame on you SJ

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Isn't there somewhere in the

By Herb Bacheller, verified user — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 09:28

Isn't there somewhere in the Bible where Jesus admonished his deciples to love one another as he has loved them? To love the Sunner but hate the sin? Just checking.

Mrs McG You seem as though

By Caryweston, unverified — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 06:40

Mrs McG

You seem as though you are not willing to even open your mind to what is happening in your church. I am Catholic but my past church would never of treated another person this way just because of differing viewpoints. The current church is about power, money and control. Any other church would of embraced this woman's differing views. Other churches would of acknowledged this and allowed her to stay on as an eucharistic minister. I have seen eucharistic ministers that are liars and cheats but because this one person disagreed with them then she is fired from a volunteered position. As I said, if she was a millionaire, the church would of never done this because of the opportunity to cash in at some point.

Please do not get me wrong, I have 2 children attending catholic schools and still do believe in the values. However, the current church is going down slowly but surely every single day. The catholic churches are closing in your area. (Two in the last month) Attendance in catholic schools are dwindling and yet your leaders continue to bully their congregation. You need to begin to ask yourself where will your church be within the next 5 - 10 years. Other churches are thriving!

So before you begin to try and support the church's moves, look into your soul and see your neighbors around you and wonder why you think you are better then them. The gays and lesbians around us are trying to survive in this world just as I am with less rights and protection. My God believes that everyone is equal otherwise He/She would not allowed us this wonderful gift of life. Finally, look at what history has told us. Hitler killed people because they were jews, gays and lesbians, etc. He did this to people because they were different. Sad but true.

Please remember, God is watching your every move and my God would never treat anyone differently! All people would be equally protected with the same rights! This is what it is all about! It is so simple. Please vote no on 1 for my children who respect everyone's views and feel that gays and lesbians and their families deserve all the rights that their family enjoys.

Longfellow - I do respect

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 23:03

Longfellow - I do respect everyone. I respect everyone's person - but I do not/cannot respect everyone's opinion, though I respect each person's right to voice it. I also cannot respect every and any choice a person makes. Sin is sin. I don't believe that I am a better person than someone with same-sex attraction. I cannot know perfectly the state of anyone's soul before God - including my own. I do know, however, that certain actions/activities are inherently and objectively sinful. To say that sodomy is a sin is no more judgemental or hateful than to say that child abuse is a sin. I am beginning to suspect that the outrage such a statement often receives gives hint that people *are* judging and hating persons like child abusers.

I hope I would never treat a person in a manner which was beneath their dignity as a loved child of God. I have a dear, old friend who is gay that I love tremendously. But love means not giving assent and approbation to what will ultimately bring misery, both earthly and eternal. Sin will never make a person truly happy. It would be hateful of me to say - do whatever makes you happy, I don't care.

Thanks Pamella for

By vanessalee1110, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 23:05

Thanks Pamella for recognizing the importance of equality for all.

This is so not germane to

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 22:43

This is so not germane to the topic at hand - but since people in favor of voting "NO on 1" keep whipping out the Catholic sexual abuse scandal, I am posting a link to an article with some excellent information regarding the scandal:

http://www.catholiceducation.org/articles/facts/fm0011.html

Particularly see points 1, 6 and 7.

I am totally disgusted with

By Caryweston, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 21:44

I am totally disgusted with the Catholic Church. I am a catholic who attended Holy Cross School in Lewiston and also graduated from St. Dominic Regional High School. I have 2 daughters who attend catholic school in another city in Maine. The Catholic Church that I once knew is gone. It is now run by a group of bullies. I wonder what the church would of done in this situation if this woman was a millionaire. My answer would be nothing. They would of looked the other way. The catholic church allowed pedophiles to roam the state of Maine and to attack our children and this was acceptable behavior. Now we as a people want to allow civil rights and protection for all our citizens and the church believes that our friends and neighbors should not be treated equally. The church has become a bully. Do you know any other church that would allow a cash collection in order to deny our friends civil rights? My daughter's catholic school does not have enough funds to replace worn out basketball shorts but the church has contributed over $700,000 to this campaign. This says alot to me. This says that this church is political and does not care for its people, even its school age kids. So if you think this church cares about you or about what my God would say and do think again. This bishop is looking to become a cardinal and will do anything to succeed. So my fellow catholics, please remember what God wants from us. God wants us to love our neighbors as our selves. All men and women are created equal and should be equal in all respect. Do not allow the church and their bullies to scare you. Vote no on 1 on tuesday so that all people in the great state of Maine are treated fairly and equally.

Very nicely put!

By concernedone, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 22:57

Very nicely put!

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Devoutmainecatholic, please

By Judy O'Neil, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:23

Devoutmainecatholic, please be careful in implying that you know the workings of the church better than others. For instance, people are not denied communion because they are divorced. That changed a long time ago. Believe it or not, part of the Catholic faith is a continuing collection of wisdom and writings that evolve through the ages. Faulty or no, many church "rules" have changed, particularly since Pope Paul and Vatican II. The Pope is no longer declared to be infallible. That changed more than 40 years ago.

Perhaps the church will change it's position on same sex marriage in time as well. Maybe it won't. I believe no one truly knows God's will. We do the best we can and aspire to the model set before us by our faith. I am voting No on 1. I too used to serve Communion, lector, etc. The Church no longer fits for me. As I learned more and more about the workings of the Church, I found that it truly didn't fit my heart. There are many good things but I no longer believe that this is the Only Way. As for the woman in the article, she is right, this is not about her, it's about doing what you truly believe is right. God gave us our intellect and hearts to put to good use.

He said "divorced and

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:34

He said "divorced and remarried outside the Church" - and he's absolutely right about that. Easily verifiable online.

Gay marriage is a threat to

By Jay Bee, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:15

Gay marriage is a threat to the Catholic Church - and as such, you can expect them to mobilize against it, no matter what perceived hypocrisy may arise as a result.

Why? Well, to borrow from Andrew Sullivan, blogger and Catholic:

"No surprise then that among the best liturgical organizers are gay men - from choirmasters to priests to altar assistants. There is something very gay about a High Mass - it's almost the religious equivalent of a Broadway musical. [The Church wishes to keep] all the queens under one roof - and surrounded by incense and lace."

It is one of the worst-kept secrets in Christiandom that a high proportion of individuals serving the Holy Roman Catholic church - males and females alike - are homosexual. You must cast your sexuality aside, but the trade-off is a secure existence, sheltered by the benevolent Mother Church.

What happens in a society where suddenly, these individuals are free to love and marry like anyone else? Does anyone honestly think this will not have repercussions on future generations of potential priests, nuns, and the like? Facing an unprecedented crisis, the Vatican is already reaching out to conservative Anglicans, as It will give married (heterosexual) priests from a different church entirely an "out" (pardon the pun) and an opportunity to rejoin the Holy See, something not contemplated in several centuries.

Unfortunately, the Church has caught itself in a vise, slowly growing tighter. It consolidates and loses its most devout followers and cuts itself off from the poor and needy. It spends money it really doesn't have in order to oppose legal measures, that will likely pass, and results in more losses of staff it can ill afford.

But it has so compromised itself in order to maintain a direct connection to its most conservative elements that it has little choice but to proceed on its current path, no matter how destructive or isolating.

As someone who grew up in this church, I am sad to see it become so out of sync with modern society. But as it has almost 2000 years of tradition and hierarchy to maintain, there's little to be done for it.

Thanks for this post, Jay

By gdls1, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:27

Thanks for this post, Jay Bee. Loved the High Mass metaphor!

lol :-)

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 18:59

lol :-)

After reading all the

By logoposition, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 16:21

After reading all the attacks on the Church because of this situation, I can't help but notice that people just don't understand the way the Church works.

The scandal here is that this woman publicly attacked her own church for spreading "fear" "hatred" "hurtful rhetoric" etc. She publicly denounced the Church's beliefs on an issue of morality - something all Catholics are bound to assent to in order to remain Catholic.

It is impossible to consider her a "victim" in all of this. The victims are the faithful catholics she is attacking, and falsly accusing of bigotry and hate. Removing her from a position (not a "job") that no layperson is entitled to, is the minimum one could do to correct this scandal.

The fact that the Church is refusing to comment on it is evidence that it is an internal matter and not a political move.

As to other sins, well, some sins bring automatic excommunication, like participating in an abortion, while other public sins automatically deny you communion, like being divorced and remarried outside the Church, and publicly denying the Church's teachings on faith or morals.

The Church is consistent in all of this. Just because some priests or bishops don't do their job, does not indicate inconsistency. It's about time this kind of thing starts happening. Msgr. Caron is showing courage in standing up to these fake catholics.

And when all you good and

By BIGGITY BUMP, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 16:37

And when all you good and wholesome Catholics are punished as you should be for not following every word of the Bible... what am I talking about that day will never happen. The church has always existed to maintain order of man in one form or another, to expect anything else is just silly.

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Note to Gaby; Re: "Times

By William L. Colburn III, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 16:18

Note to Gaby;

Re: "Times change and we have to change with those times."
Correction; Just because you WANT to change, doesn't necessarily mean WE (heterosexuals) have to change.

Re: "All people must be treated equally for this society to be at some peace."
I agree. However, why is it that if an assault is performed against a homosexual (or other minorities), it's a "hate crime", yet if an assault is performed against a heterosexual, it's not a hate crime, and the punishment isn't as severe for the attacker. Where's the equality in that? That is CLEARLY preferential treatment. Why is a homosexual's life more valuable than mine, as a heterosexual male? The gay community has enough special rights as it is. I'll be voting "YES."

Bill of Augusta, you are

By gaby, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 19:01

Bill of Augusta, you are just plain ignorant.....

As far as you changing as a person, you can't speak for all "heterosexuals", if you choose not to accept change then you are going to have major issues as your life goes on. In case you are unaware of this Change is a MAJOR part of every day and it is INEVITABLE.

I am heterosexual, I have friends who are gay, and quite frankly, they are much more respective of "all" people, regardless. I think that we all have special rights at one time or another..... What about a black person who is missing vs. a white person, who do you think is going to get more attention on the news? How often do you see reports looking for a black person...... So what I am hearing from you is that you don't think that people who are being miss treated should get special treatment. Just tar and feather the person who cares right? Thank god that changed!

It is designated a hate

By BIGGITY BUMP, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 16:35

It is designated a hate crime when it is proven that the perpetrator of the crime specifically sought someone out for a reason listed under the hate crimes act. i.e. gender, age, race, and sexual orientation.

That is correct

By gaby, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 19:44

That is correct unforgivenjimi

I just can't imagine why the

By the_poorman, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 16:06

I just can't imagine why the Catholic Church is losing churches all across the nation and losing members at such a rapid clip. Must be all that haterade they keep spewing. Can't wait till the Church disappears. People will have to learn to think for themselves. They'll have to actually read the bible. Good times!

Any problem that can't be solved with taxcuts, republicans pretend doesn't exist.

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It is amazing, the church

By Herb Bacheller, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 15:47

It is amazing, the church hides it pedephiles, yet is able to criticize this woman. Reminds me of how well the catholics helped the jews in germany, and the Spanish Inquisition. What is next? Uniformed pedephile priests kicking in doors late at night or in the wee hours of the morning? The church lost me a long time ago, was this poor woman any more of a bad influence than hiding those pedephile priests? I think not.

John 28, I am quoting you, a

By SRV, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 15:10

John 28, I am quoting you, a "pedofile" would be a file about walking. You also claim they "threw a member out of the church" when all they did is dismiss an employee who chose to take a very public stand against her employer. Perhaps your argument would be more convincing if you stuck to the issue at hand rather than devolve into a diatribe against the Catholic church. If, as the courts have recently ruled, that an employee can be fired for speaking negatively about thier employer online on a Facebook or MySpace page, they can certainly be fired for stating public opposition to their employer's stance in a public newspaper. And, if the bible never mentioned the word "homsexsual" (sic) it is probably because the word does not exist.

SRV, your just another right

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 15:58

SRV, your just another right wing bigot like the bishop!

Church teaching is one

By keepit, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 14:00

Church teaching is one thing. Maine's constitution and its laws are another. They are separate and should remain that way. If the Catholic Church wins this one and imposes its religious views on society at large, watch the next step: remember that divorce is condemned by the Catholic Church: THERE'S a real threat to traditional marriage. Wonder how that referendum would turn out!

Are her age and address

By ihaterainydays, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 13:34

Are her age and address necessary to tell this story?

I am curious to know how

By gaby, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:46

I am curious to know how many of the people, who are against same sex marriage, have broken any of the commandments during their lifetime. If you have, shame on you, you hypocryte!
Times change and we have to change with those times. The bible has been written by different people according to their interpretation. Look how many years it took society to accept people of all color. Remember slavery! Now people are starting to accept same sex relationships. Why not marriage? They simply want to have the same rights as a marriage between a man and a woman. What is wrong with that? They are not asking for "special privelages" and the whole balogne about teaching same sex marraige in school, they make it sound like it's going to be a mandatory class!!! Wake up people! All people must be treated equally for this society to be at some peace. Treat people how you want to be treated.

Lying is wrong. I've lied in

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:31

Lying is wrong. I've lied in my life. I guess I can't say it's wrong, then. That's utterly illogical, as is saying: "I've lied in my life - so I can't say that your robbing and beating an old lady is wrong or bad because that would make me a hypocrite." This is silliness. I am treating others as I would be treated. I don't want anyone to confirm me in my wrongdoing, so I won't do that for anyone else.

Thank you, Msgr. Caron, for

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:44

Thank you, Msgr. Caron, for furthering the Catholic Church's mission to save souls by removing what was a very public scandal.

I applaud the Diocese of Portland for publicly promoting the truth, even when that truth brings out hatred and bigotry against the Church and makes Her unpopular even with Her own members.

Thank you for showing the world that the Church's mission is the salvation of souls - it is no a missiont to win popularity contests with the general public through public policy.

I pray Ms. Beliveau will come to understand and be reconciled with the Church's teachings, and that faithful Catholics will treat her with the utmost charity that will help her embrace those teachings.

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: ‘No servant is greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also." John 15: 18-20

WOW, I'm quoting you "Thank

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 13:08

WOW, I'm quoting you "Thank you Msgr Caron for furthering the catholic church mission to save souls by removing what was a very public scandal"
Now, you certainly are talking about the church 'hiding their pedofile priests, right?'

Not a lot of forgiveness or

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:26

Not a lot of forgiveness or mercy in your heart? The Catholic Church has officially and publicly apologized again and again, made financial restitution to victims of abuse and continues to enact formal policies to prevent future harm - excommunicating and laicizing those who violate children. A far more serious censure than being disallowed the privilege of distributing Holy Communion and reading God's word from the pulpit. Say it: You want the Catholic Church to roll over and play dead - to be dead. Well, I'm afraid you're going to be disappointed.

"You want the Catholic

By news4u, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 20:17

"You want the Catholic Church to roll over and play dead - to be dead. Well, I'm afraid you're going to be disappointed."
Why do you find it so difficult to understand why people are upset with the Catholic Church and its members? You can not hand pick which parts of the Bible that you choose to live by while showing total disregard for the rest of the Bible.

There are references in the Bible about procreation. Catholics believe that marriage is between a man and a women and that sex between a married Catholic couple is meant for procreation purposes.To Catholics, purposely stopping the joining of an egg and sperm is thought to be a sin, yet many of today's practicing Catholics (single and/or married) use birth control. I am not referring to Natural Family Planning, but to other hormone & barrier methods.

There are references in the Bible about divorce. Marriage is one of the seven sacraments in the Catholic Church. Their official position is that marriage is a sacrament that cannot be dissolved. A valid marriage has to endure until one spouse dies. They do not believe in divorce. Instead, they allow annullments. If Catholics divorce and remarry, they are still welcome to worship but they cannot receive the Holy Eucharist. These individuals are denied the most important of the seven sacraments. Does the church readily accept the monetary offerings that these worshippers choose to give?

You wrote: "The Catholic Church has officially and publicly apologized again and again, made financial restitution to victims of abuse and continues to enact formal policies to prevent future harm - excommunicating and laicizing those who violate children. A far more serious censure than being disallowed the privilege of distributing Holy Communion and reading God's word from the pulpit." But, they only did this once the crimes were made public. Had it not been made public would they have done this?

There are references in the Bible regarding passing judgement on your neighbor.The Bible states “Judge not, that you be not judged.Why do you or anyone else in the church have the right to judge another individual's actions, thoughts, or deeds? It also states "This is My commandment, that you love one another, just as I have loved you. Where is the love and compassion in your heart?

I don't wish for the Catholic Church to be dead- only to stop being so hypocritical.

RE: Judge not and ye shall

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 22:04

RE: Judge not and ye shall not be judged.

It's interesting that people only pull this one out when people are naming something a "sin" - when they want that behavior to not be a sin. Nobody says: "Judge not..." when it comes to rape or homicide. That's because we are judging actions and not individuals. I don't know that even the rapist will be cast into hell for all eternity - I don't know if he has repented before God or did not have the capacity for understanding the nature of his crime. But what the rapist did is unspeakably horrific and wrong.

I don't know the heart of a particular person with same-sex attraction - is he given over to addiction but repentent - or if there are any other number of conditions present which mitigate or vitiate his personal guilt. But I know that his inclinations are disordered and go against nature as well as the laws of God. His behaviors are physically and psychologically damaging to himself and to his partner. I can't judge the state of his soul before God, nor his heart, but neither will I encourage anyone to institutionalize publicly an objectively sinful sexual relationship.

True love does not confirm a person in his sin. Whether or not one is morally culpable for his sins, one is damaged by them in a variety of ways, even if one does not perceive that damage.

Your primary confusion is

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 21:48

Your primary confusion is the difference between the Church and the members of the Church. Hypocrisy is status quo for all of humanity. Paul speaks of doing the things he hates and not the things he loves. Every single member of humanity, as sin affects everyone - from the pope, to the bishops, to the laity. That shouldn't surprise anyone. Catholics know that the minute you become Catholic, you don't cease sinning. That's why we have the Sacrament of Confession.

Many Catholic couples contracept. And, yet, many couples are unaware that artificial contraception is a grave sin (even "barrier methods" are sinful NFP is the only licit way to avoid pregnany for grave reasons).

"...they only did this once the crimes were made public. Had it not been made public would they have done this?"

We won't ever know, will we? Some diocese were already handling situations appropriately. There were several prominent dioceses that did not. But that does not mean the Church institutionally condoned or accepted the activities of some of its priests and bishops.

Again - you don't understand the nature of anullments. Certain conditions are necessary at the time of marriage in order for marriage to be valid. If they are not, there was never a marriage. But I don't have time to go into it here Google "anullments Catholic Encyclopedia" for the proper understanding.

The Church is not hated so much for what she teaches; She's hated for what people mistakenly think She teaches.

"Again - you don't

By news4u, unverified — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 15:35

"Again - you don't understand the nature of anullments. Certain conditions are necessary at the time of marriage in order for marriage to be valid. If they are not, there was never a marriage." I did the research prior to making my previous post. The reasons given for an anulment in the Catholic Church are similar to the reasons a divorce would be granted in the State of Maine. However, the Catholic Church does not believe in divorce. Instead, annulments are granted. You can argue that it was never a true marriage according to the Catholic Church. No matter what you choose to call it, it is the dissolution between a husband and wife . The fact remains that the bond as husband and wife has been broken & no longer exists.

"Many Catholic couples contracept. And, yet, many couples are unaware that artificial contraception is a grave sin (even "barrier methods" are sinful NFP is the only licit way to avoid pregnany for grave reasons)." Are they not aware or are they choosing to commit a "grave sin" (your words not mine.)? I find this difficult to believe that they are not aware of the Church's view on this subject.

"The Church is not hated so much for what she teaches; She's hated for what people mistakenly think She teaches"
You continue to use the term hated when referring to what you feel others think of the Church. Please remember that these are your words, not mine. Hatred is a strong emotion. While you and I will never see "eye to eye" regarding issues of the Church I believe we are both entitled to our opinions and beliefs.
As Aristotle said “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”

RE: Anullments - if you did

By Mrs. McG, unverified — Sun, 11/01/2009 - 23:15

RE: Anullments - if you did the research, you clearly did not understood what you read. An annulment finds that no marriage ever existed because there was a DEFECT in the matter or form. You cannot obtain an annulment as a result of irreconciliable differences or even spousal abuse. The most common reasons anullments are granted are as follows: insufficient or inadequate ability to give free consent, psychological incapacity, and absence of a proper intention to have children, be faithful, or remain together until death. The unfortunate and confusing reality is, however, that people don't usually go seeking to have their marriages declared invalid unless there is a relational difficulty between the spouses, giving the appearance that anullments are just "Catholic divorces."

Many, many Catholics are not aware of the Church's teaching on artificial contraception, especially in our present generation. It's funny - it's one of those things everyone outside of the Church seems to know, but gets blank stares when you mention it to fellow Catholics. In any case, the fact that Catholics dissent from Catholic teaching does not make the Church hypocritical... it makes individuals within the Church rebellious. The Church has remained consistent in Her teaching.

RE: Hate - dozens and dozens of comments I've seen in the gay marriage debate have a whif of hatred about them directed at the Church. I didn't mean you personally hated the Church - just making the point that people usually take issue with the Church based on lack of information and misunderstanding.

stay in the closet

By smedley, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:38

stay in the closet

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The Church burns Joan of Arc

By Ronald Riml, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:17

The Church burns Joan of Arc to death for being a Heretic - then they canonize her, declaring her Saint Joan of Arc. One day's sinner is another day's Saint.

God Bless Pamella Starbird Beliveau!!

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Good point, veritas! I

By gdls1, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:41

Good point, veritas!
I admire and respect Ms. Beliveau; it took great courage to speak out (and so eloquently) for what she feels is right.

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Religion of anykind has " NO

By Bruce Wotton, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:14

Religion of anykind has " NO RIGHT PLACING THEIR NOSE WHERE IT DON'T BELONG". Religion and politics "DO NOT MIX". People that feel they are above god and think they know the rules, are in for a sad awakening on judgement day. God himself is the only one that can make the world decision if a person goes to heaven or hell.

Pamella went against the

By exoggensani, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:56

Pamella went against the churches belief's and if you go against what your boss tells you then you should be fired. The church did the right thing.

I voted YES on 1 because I do not like the way the law is written. I feel that President Obama just signed in to law more protection for homosexuals. Where is the protection for heterosexuals?

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Um. This is a STATE law. It

By alex79, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 13:03

Um. This is a STATE law. It has zero to do with Obama. Marriage is the protection for heterosexuals couples. Homosexual couple would simply like the same protection.

Well I guess you did NOT

By exoggensani, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 17:48

Well I guess you did NOT watch the news because here is the PROOF that President Obama just signed new law for homosexuals. It is FEDERAL LAW and NOT state.

Obama Signs First Major Federal Homosexual Rights Law

The expanded federal hate crimes law, hailed by supporters as the first major federal gay rights legislation, was added to a $680 billion defense authorization bill that Obama signed at a packed White House ceremony.

Copy and paste BOTH lines below to read my proof:

http://blackchristiannews.com/news/2009/10/
president-obama-signs-homosexual-hate-crimes-bill-into-law.html

Another site with the story:

Obama Reaffirms Support for Homosexual Agenda
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
By Liz Sidoti, Associated Press

http://cnsnews.com/public/content/article.aspx?RsrcID=50320

What do you need protection

By T, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:15

What do you need protection from?

Please explain.

I would like my children to

By K0NPHL1C7, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:23

I would like my children to not have to be exposed to the perversions of others.

Then the best bet is to keep

By BIGGITY BUMP, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:27

Then the best bet is to keep them in the house, get rid of your TV, phone and internet access. You and your spouse better not ever fight or show improper affection around them. Locked and bar the doors and pray to your jealous deity.

Why now? Why has the church

By concernedone, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:41

Why now? Why has the church decided to make a stand like this now? What about the church teachings that say if you don't follow you will not be able to receive the sacrament of holy eucharist? This goes for all of the people who have been divorced and don't have the marriage annulled, also all politicians that support abortion! I believe Monisgnor Caron needs to look at his actions and if he does this for one, he must do it for every other person as well. Why signal out one person about this? I applaud Ms. Beliveau for standing up and believing in what she feels is right. Here is another catholic who will be voting NO on 1.

...and you'll be on the

By T, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:13

...and you'll be on the welcoming committee.

OHHHHHHHH GOOD ONE!

By K0NPHL1C7, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 12:21

OHHHHHHHH GOOD ONE!

While it is commendable that

By SRV, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:26

While it is commendable that she believed so strongly in the issue that she must have knowingly put her job at risk by publicly announcing her opposition to her employer's strongly held and well known position (especially since she made a point of listing her religious credentials), I would wager that the exact same termination would have taken place had an employee of the ACLU or GLAAD had openly advocated against gay marriage.

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Yes, and if that ever did

By K0NPHL1C7, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:42

Yes, and if that ever did happen, do you think the S-J would report it? Doubtfull.

I wouldn't walk back into

By Pandora, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:24

I wouldn't walk back into the Catholic church. I can't believe it when I hear that the Catholic church will do something like this to a person and they just accept it and continue to sit in the pew. Catholics are going to become fearful of voicing their own opinions and the church will never change. I think what the church did to her is deplorable. Sad to say with submissive actions such as her's the Catholic church will never catch up with times.

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Chuch not change? I don't

By Ronald Riml, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:13

Chuch not change? I don't believe they sell indulgences any longer, but they do tend to move rather slowly........

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The Catholic Church has its

By citrus, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:12

The Catholic Church has its teachings. If you don't like them go some where else where you will get your ears tickled. If you don't want to hear the true teachings of the bible preached, thats your privilage.

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The TRUE teaching of the

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:17

The TRUE teaching of the bible is LOVE ONE ANOTHER AS I HAVE LOVED YOU, but I guess you can't read the truth in the Bible.

Jesus said sin no more.

By citrus, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 11:33

Jesus said sin no more. Homosexuality is sin, its in black n white, in Gods word.

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Jesus never mentions the

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 11:52

Jesus never mentions the word HOMOSEXSUAL once!!! You have been so badly brainwashed by the church!!

Did they teach you to talk

By T, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 10:12

Did they teach you to talk like that in church?

The Church has made no false

By Gil, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 07:51

The Church has made no false claims about where they stand and I think it shows strength and resolve to fire someone who so clearly doesn't follow their beliefs and demonstrated it in such a public fashion. The hypocrites will come on here and bash the church without once remembering the stories of those fired for public indiscretions from lay corporations. If you don't believe and follow the church's doctrine, then you shouldn't be in a position to minister o others in the church. I would go further and repeat what I have already said, that if you believe in and support gay marriage then you are not truly Catholic and should probably find another religion that does. Good luck on that. And again, for the record, not Catholic.
"Reasoning with a liberal is like trying to pick up a turd by the clean end. " Pirate

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You are just another

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 09:15

You are just another hypocrit bigot that hates God's Children. The more reason I am voting NO on 1

There is no way you can

By tron, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 08:32

There is no way you can idientify MS. Beliveau actions a public indiscretion. Enough of your attempts to redefine the English language.

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This is how the Catholic

By Roger Couturier, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 07:29

This is how the Catholic church gives thanks to a follower who has for the past 20 years given of herself by being a leading participant in weekly masses. It is so sad that the church also insists on controlling her thoughts, her opinions and her right to free speech. I suppose it is required to be a puppet in order to be a "good catholic". I feel for Ms Beliveau but admire her for standing by her convictions. I am another catholic who will vote NO on question #1. Or should I say former catholic.

It's with extreme sadness

By John 28, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 06:17

It's with extreme sadness that Caron and Malone have gone the way of devil and trowing their good long time church members out of the church. The stories I've heard are frightening at what the catholic church has become. I just wish that Jesus was here in person today and deal with those two, and in time He will. Shame a million times to the catholic church for so much hate and bigotry. Shame, shame, shame and shame again.

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Even after all of this she

By Melissa Dunn, verified user — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 01:19

Even after all of this she still wants to 'keep the eyes on the issue' for equality. W O W! That is truly rare and inspirational! =]

Isn't it sad that the

By tron, unverified — Sat, 10/31/2009 - 00:38

Isn't it sad that the Catholic Church is so cowardly that it refuses to justify its' actions. Well they are within their rights, but is this the caring loving church I grew up with?

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