Friday, November 20, 2009 in Lewiston, Maine

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Community rallies to build Beth's House

WEST PARIS — A 24-year-old West Paris woman, who wasn't supposed to live beyond two years, spends a lot of time laughing with her family.

"I have an extremely strong will," Beth Coffin said as she sat in a wheelchair in the kitchen of her High Street home. "My doctor tells me I'm stubborn."

But beneath all the laughter is the stark reality of the family's situation.

Beth suffers from spinal muscular atrophy type II, two blood diseases and scoliosis that has left her in a wheelchair. Her mother and caregiver, Bonnie Coffin, and her stepfather, Gary Waterhouse, have chronic Lyme disease and are unable to work. Their home, an old trailer with a stick-built addition, is falling apart.

A dripping leak in the living room ceiling has now turned to a steady stream. Mold and rot are evident in the kitchen floors, and the bathtub threatens to fall through the rotted floor at any time. The list goes on.

"We couldn't keep up with the repairs because of all of the stuff that happened," Bonnie said.

After a newspaper story about the family's plight in May, a group of area residents formed Beth's House Committee to build her a home. They've raised $8,000 of the estimated $100,000 needed and it's planning a fundraiser this weekend.

"She is a dear friend of ours and we felt the need to do something to help her and her family," said Carrie Andrews, a committee founder, who along with her fiance, Rick Cook, filled a bag with groceries and went to see Beth last spring.

"It was all I could do to hold back the tears . . . in fact I had to leave, walk outside, to contain myself from the sadness of what they have to go through each and every day," Andrews said.

Beth sleeps in a Porta-Lung, a 30-inch tube bed decorated with colorful flower stickers. She must remain on her back with her head in a neck collar outside the machine, which helps her breathe.

The bed, which she was given when she was 15, takes up much of her dark, tiny bedroom that is brightened by colorful flower curtains she and her mom made.

Her mother must lift Beth's 54-pound body every night and slide her into the bed, then be prepared to wake up as much as every two hours to rub her stiffened joints.

A 2003 graduate of Oxford Hills Comprehensive High School, Beth spends the better part of each day on her computer playing games and e-mailing friends, signing off with her signature "zoom, zoom, zoom."

"If you ever see her at Wal-Mart, you'll know why," Bonnie said, referring to the signature. A sticker on the back of her wheelchair reads: "2Fast4You."

Beth's House Committee hopes she'll soon be wheeling around in a new home. Committee member Joe Bumbaca of Norway, a retired builder, said there was discussion about buying a used mobile home immediately and putting it on the site, but the driveway is too steep to get it into place. Instead, the committee hopes to break ground for a new home in the spring, preferably at another site that provides easier, safer access.

"I only wanted to be involved in the building, but I saw the need to get them going in the money part of it. It seems to be working," said Bumbaca of donations that have gone from $4,000 to $8,000 in a month.

On Saturday, Oct. 10, the committee is sponsoring Musical Hammer, a benefit concert at Celebration Barn at 190 Stock Farm Road just off Route 117 in Paris. The show begins at 7:30 p.m. and will feature Western Maine performers Jewel Clark and Donny Katlin, Peter Morton, Nate Towne and Brad Hooper. Seating is limited to 125 people and $10 tickets are available at Books N Things and Creative Media, both on Main Street in Norway. Tickets will also be available at the door. There is no heat in the barn so concertgoers are encouraged to dress appropriately or bring a blanket.

"There are a whole lot of people in the process of getting involved. Now we need some big-time contributions,"  Bumbaca said.

Donations may be sent to a special account at Norway Savings Bank, 356 Main St., Norway, ME 04268, and checks made out to "Beth's House."

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iAmCare says

Hi Everyone;

I am Carrie Andrews. I thought maybe I would clear a few things up for people that don't realize the things that we have tried for Beth and her family. The first thing is that we HAVE tried Extreme Home Makeovers and Beth was turned down twice. And she would not be comfortable in another home (subsidized Housing)...Even though their Home is falling apart...they have adapted to it to some extent. And they really don't have the money to move. We have checked into all routes and there are things that make it impossible for Beth to live within. Beth is a very determined young lady and she will see this through to the end.....and she will enter her dream of a new safe home and live there forever. We can do this!....We have actually raised 10,000.00 so far since June of 2009 and we have people on our committee now that have done this kinda thing before and they are going after the larger donations. So if you feel that you can contribute in any way...please let us know. Our committee meets every Wednesday at the Norway Savings bank in Norway....at 2pm each week. Everyone is welcome if they feel they have something to offer . There you can learn all that we are doing...and understand the avenues that we have taken. There is a lot to this and we would be glad to share info with you if you feel the need. Thank you so much everyone for taking the time to read Beth's Story......And for commenting. She needs our help...and you all are right....We should help OUR people first. But it is nice to know we come from a country that can help everyone..........Peace to you all.
Always
Care sparkleme1237@aol.com PS...you can donate at ANY Norway Saving under " Beth's House"

Posted 5 weeks ago (permalink)

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Chippy says

This is a sad situation. Has anyone seen some of the places on the backroads of Wilton? People actually live in them! It's just so unbelievable that so many Maine people live like this because they have no choice. We should help our own poor people before helping other countries.

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amother says

I also hope Beth gets a new home of her own BUT.. until the funds can be gathered together this is a sad and seemingly unsafe place for her to be.
I am only wanting the best for her.

Posted 5 weeks ago (permalink)

wheelie207 says

I person has the right to stay in their own place and not have to live in a subsidized place.
She wouldn't be happy there having to worry about someone telling here what she can do and what she can't. I hope she gets her home fixed and lives in it for years to come where she is happy...

Posted 6 weeks ago (permalink)

allintwos55 says

Wow you are so strong in your situtation. You go girl! Anyways why don't you contact Extreme Makeover? You are sure eligable . Good Luck

Posted 6 weeks ago (permalink)

Blue Eyes says

I'm with you amother. Geesh.... we can send money to other countries to help them but we can't help our own people! This is just absolutely wrong!!!

Posted 6 weeks ago (permalink)

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sheesh says

Community Concepts has a housing replacement program for those that qualify BUT funding is low at this point. I'm sure this family would quality and probably are on the waiting list. With funding low there isn't much that can be done. I know some one on that list and has a roof that might collapse this coming winter but nothing can be done with out funding.

Posted 6 weeks ago (permalink)

amother says

Why does this family have to live thru another winter in this situation?? Isn't there any subsidy housing available for her and her family?
I can't believe the DHHS after reading of the conditions allows any one to live in the "home".

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