AUBURN - A Lewiston man charged with killing his mother was ordered held without bail Tuesday during a brief court appearance the day after his arrest.
Matthew N. Audet, 22, of 101 Birch St., Lewiston, his hair bleached blond, wore an orange jail suit, his ankles shackled as he stood before Justice Carl Bradford at Androscoggin County Superior Court.
Assistant Attorney General Lisa Marchese asked that Audet be jailed until a court hearing when a judge would hear arguments on whether there is probable cause to continue holding him without bail. In the meantime, the state is expected to present evidence to a grand jury in hopes it would return a murder indictment against Audet. At the next court hearing, set for April 17, Audet would be expected to enter his plea on the indictment.
Until then, Bradford said Audet wouldn't be eligible for bail. Justin Leary, a local attorney representing Audet in court Tuesday, said he didn't dispute probable cause underlying a police complaint that resulted in the arrest and murder charge against his client Monday.
A sworn police affidavit released Monday includes an interview with a family friend who said she was told Audet had a sexual relationship with his mother. During a police interview with Audet's wife, Kayla, she said she also had a sexual relationship with Audet's mother, Debra, the affidavit said.
Kayla Audet said she saw Matthew choking his mother Sunday on a mattress on the floor of the apartment all three shared. An autopsy revealed injuries consistent with strangulation.
Several people attended the morning court hearing, including Alyssa Drake, who said she had known Matthew Audet since he was 11.
She lived across the street from the defendant and they became good friends, she said. Until Tuesday, she hadn't seen him for about a month.
Drake said Audet had told her that his mother molested him and physically abused him. She also witnessed Debra Audet abuse her son in public, Drake said.
"We watched some physical touching with his mom touching him in places she shouldn't be touching him. She used to beat the hell out of him for no reason at all. She'd push him, smack him, and, you know, he would just keep walking."
Drake said she called Maine's Department of Health and Human Services to report the abuse, but they never followed up on her complaint.
"The state didn't do nothing about it," she said.
Drake also said Audet's mother gave him alcohol and marijuana when he was young.
"She was having him smoke. She would say that it would keep him out of trouble," Drake said.
Debra Audet would call police if her son left and report that he had tried to assault her, Drake said.
Police said Tuesday they had responded to repeated domestic violence calls at the Audet residence dating back to 1995 that resulted in arrests.
Matthew Audet's parents had divorced and his father had lived across the street, Drake said. He died several years ago, she said.
Drake said she could understand why Audet would want to kill his mother after years of abuse.
"Matt's really not a violent person," Drake said. "He snapped."
Posted By:Clae at March 19, 2008 5:15 AM(Suggest Removal) Anybody that has known Matt knew he was a good kid and how abusive his mother was. It's too bad it has come to this. We need to educated kids when there younger that being touched in places and abused by your parents/family is unacceptable, and should feel safe and compelled to let someone know.
Posted By:Jane at March 19, 2008 5:21 AM(Suggest Removal) If the police was going to the Audets home back as early as 1995, why wasn't the DHHS involved. Because at that time Matt would of been a minor. The state should of been protecting this child so that it never got to this point.
Posted By:humanbeing at March 19, 2008 5:47 AM(Suggest Removal) I wonder if the court will show this person the same leniency and understanding that it showed Mr. Poirier.
Posted By:parent at March 19, 2008 5:52 AM(Suggest Removal) DHHS is responds to what THEY see as a concern.As for Mr.Poirier he got what he deserved these are two seperate situations that when these adults were children you have to ask yourself where in the heck was DHHS!
Posted By:jv at March 19, 2008 6:00 AM(Suggest Removal) I don't know - it just seems too easy. The "Scott Poirier" defense could get a lot of murderers off with a slap on the wriste if anything. I'm not saying this guy or that Mr. Poirier weren't abused, but there's gotta be some point where enough is enough. I say blaming the legal system's flaws for a crime you choose to commit is ludacris. Lots of bad stuff happens to lots of good people. None of it warrants taking the laws into your own hands. I think the Scott Poirier case sent a terrible precedent and we are going to continue to see cases like this for a long time coming.
Posted By:Clae at March 19, 2008 6:05 AM(Suggest Removal) Whatever happens, Matt is free of his mothers control and i hope he finally gets the help and therapy that he needs to possibly have a normal life. Your friends are behind you Matt!
Posted By:humanbeing at March 19, 2008 6:07 AM(Suggest Removal) Mental illness from abuse is real. It changes your brain's ability to have impulse control and to consider consequences of actions.
Posted By:Jane at March 19, 2008 6:08 AM(Suggest Removal) We wouldn't continue to see cases like these if the legal system did there part and kept the sick sexual offenders off the street and away from our children. Same with DHHS. The victims find themselves with no place to turn, they feel desperate and threatened and unfortunately sometimes the results are deadly.
Posted By:Bulldog at March 19, 2008 6:58 AM(Suggest Removal) The question that needs to be asked is who is really the victim and who is really the villain?
Posted By:ojhuig at March 19, 2008 8:25 AM(Suggest Removal) Nobody knows how they are going to react to a lifetime of torture. You don't think you'd finally snap? Don't be so sure. And this kid was still being tortured, not in the past like Scott. He should get time in a hospital, not in jail.
Posted By:Beeswax at March 19, 2008 8:35 AM(Suggest Removal) Just a concerned citizen letting people know that there are still people out there that sexually abused children. In fact there is two local same chain stores than give free coffee to police. And at that store there is a man who sexually abused a minor child. He also has a lengthy criminal record being twice convicted of theft but yet he still works in a store. You tell me who would hire someone like that. Also your kids are being exposed to him when you chose to go in there. As for the police when they chose to talk about police issues are they aware there self that there talking with someone who molested a child? Anyone feel free to check this out he's out there in our community.
Posted By:Heather C at March 19, 2008 8:39 AM(Suggest Removal) "but there's gotta be some point where enough is enough.".......yeah and the abused had had enough. Not saying it's right but I couldn't imagine a parent doing that to me. The prison he faces now is nothing compared to his entire life of prison.
Posted By:Marilyn at March 19, 2008 9:03 AM(Suggest Removal) Alan, I think most of the population don't agree it was right to kill his mother, but he definitely needs help in learning to live "normal" in a "normal" society. He will have his mother's abuse hanging over him for the rest of his life. Someone suggested time, possibly a lengthy time, in a hospital...not prison. I agree with that. His MOTHER should have gotten help a LONG time ago!
Posted By:kellie at March 19, 2008 9:06 AM(Suggest Removal) The law is the law, pretty well stated, even in the Bible, thou shalt not kill. Look at some of these excuses why people screw up, this young man could have talked to counselors, teachers or "run away". There are a lot ways out, teach the future generations that murder is not the answer.
Posted By:Keith at March 19, 2008 9:10 AM(Suggest Removal) What's really sad in cases like this, and Poirier's, and many others out there, is that there doesn't seem to be a system in place that is willing to step in and prosecute these abuses when the children are young. It's understandable that a kid being abused wouldn't speak up, and even in adulthood might not act and prosecute a family member for past abuses. I'd So who's going to step in. If DHHS is told about an issue, I'd hope they'd investigate and take action. But that's clearly not happening in all cases. It's most likely a money issue (who's going to pay for the interviews, monitoring, and court fees if needed???) DHHS has their hands full as is, are we all willing to pay more taxes for this? The system isn't perfect, that shouldn't be a surprise to anyone. The question is, how serious are we about wanting to try to fix is? And at what cost and benefit? Sad stories for sure...victims on both sides.
Posted By:ojhuig at March 19, 2008 9:29 AM(Suggest Removal) I agree, he's not well enough to walk the streets and probably never will be. But DHS needs to take off their blinders about child abuse.
Posted By:JulieL at March 19, 2008 9:53 AM(Suggest Removal) Wow Alan, way to have empathy. Imagine being an 8 year old boy and your mother begins grooming you as her sexual partner. Imagine this sexual relationship continues into your 20's. Add the alcohol and drug component and you have one mentally, emotionally, toxic individual. A moral compass? Are you serious? his young man should be hospitalized for as long as Poirer gets jail time. I do feel bad for Scott but the difference between 15 and 8 is astronomical. I think Scott's sentence was too lenient, sorry folks, but i wish him well and hope he is able to have a shot at an alcohol free, productive life. Matthew has a much more complicated road to travel and the fact that he slipped through DCFS is tragic. PEOPLE, contact the police when you see a kid "being touched in inappropriate places or smacked, or given drugs and alcohol." DO NOT PROTECT the abuser. Give these kids the protection they deserve. And start teaching inappropriate touching in school TODAY! Just be prepared for the "puritanical fringe elements" to picket the school.....
Posted By:mom at March 19, 2008 9:56 AM(Suggest Removal) I can understand the pain these two they went though. Having said that there is no excuse for what either of them did. I was a abused child HOWEVER I am now an adult. I seeked help that I needed to learn to deal with what happened to me as a child. I have not killed the person that abused me. I have cut him out of my like completly and have moved on. and no that is n ot an easy thing to do. It haunts you every day but you have to make that decision to let it go little by little. DHHS was not there to protect me either. I'm sorry but having been through it as a child you need to make the conscious decision to help yourself and stop blaming bad decisions that you make as an adult on something that happened to you as a child. Who out there has had a perfect childhood? It's time people own up to their own actions and stop playing the blame game.
Posted By:D at March 19, 2008 10:40 AM(Suggest Removal) I've known Debbbie since she was 17. She was the EXTREMELY troubled child of an otherwise upright, hardworking, bedrock, French Catholic family in Lewiston. Her choice of husband reflected that. Mathew never had a chance. During High School, Mathew took a year or so off to care for his dad while he wasted away and died. He loved his dad. When the truth is finally told, you'll probably find that the murder was more accident than anything. Even as abusive and royaly screwed up as Debbie was, I know that Mathew loved his mother. This does not excuse his actions and I am not defending them or him in any way. I am simply saying that he is being painted as a mother-slaying monster, probably played chess with her entrails. As horrific as the act was, as twisted as the situation was/is, he may not be what many people have already decided. It may be that he was trying to calm his mother who was swinging at him. His strong grip was too much for her frail body. Look at what he said "I just killed my mom! I just killed my mom!" Those are the words of a suprised son in a state of panic. "I Just killed that @(*#*@@(!" are the words of a cold blooded mother killer.
Again, not defending him, just saying that there are facts that have not been told and assumptions that are being made.
Posted By:just me at March 19, 2008 11:09 AM(Suggest Removal) It's easy for people to say Hey- he was a grown man and should have simply left. But imagine the childhood this guy had. He was never given one iota of safety, he was never taught healthy boundaries. His mother abusing him, completely twisted his perception of what a 'normal' family life is.
Add chemical dependency at a young age, supplied by his mother, and you have a very dangerous dysfunctional situation. And a very co-dependent one.
He never stood a chance.
My heart breaks to read this article. The system, and our society as a whole, fails kids like Matthew every day.
Posted By:Blue Eyes at March 19, 2008 11:46 AM(Suggest Removal) To Alan, you are certainly entitled to your own opinion. BUT..I don't see that it's your place to call those of us that don't agree with you names or whatever. And to Kellie, you said there is always a way out...have you,yourself, every suffered any type of abuse? When you are being abused,you are being controled, mind,body and soul. You are literally brainwashed and made to feel that you are getting what you deserve, that you are crap and can't do better. To an outsider,oh yes, you all have the answers on how to get out of the situation. But until you are put in this situation yourself, you will never ever understand.
Posted By:Reader at March 19, 2008 11:56 AM(Suggest Removal) Thats just great!! Now we are gonna have a bunch of kids out there killing the parents then crying abuse!BLAH BLAH BLAH WHAT IS THIS WORLD COMING TO?
Posted By:sick of the baby rappers at March 19, 2008 12:35 PM(Suggest Removal) Alan, I am glad that you have no idea what kind of mental anguish sexual abuse is. If you could for one second picture your self being forced into a sexual act with one of your parents, then beaten when you didnt do it right, then thrown in your room and hollered at, going days with shit for meals, dirty clothes, a school system that slid you through the cracks, a dad thats too drunk to give a f**k and a mom who would better off locked up in a "waky-ward".....just try. And if you dont get that, than try this one. IF YOU ARE A PARENT: can you picture your self with your 9 year old having your way with them.......how do you think they would be mentally in a month, and then 10 years from now when you still haven't stopeed? To bad *educated* *KNOW IT ALLS* like your self have yet to walk in a pair of shoes you couldnt even slide on your feet. So why dont you take a *ticket* to Dr.Phil and maybe he can teach you a thing or two about *REALITY*
Posted By:Suzanne at March 19, 2008 1:11 PM(Suggest Removal) This story is essentially tabloid trash. Shame on Sun Journal for giving such unnecessary, lurid details -- particularly those given in LaFlamme's original article. The local newspaper shouldn't have to be something thrown away before children see it. Unfortunately, this is always the case with Sun Journal.
Posted By:bonnie at March 19, 2008 1:33 PM(Suggest Removal) Perhaps it's time for everyone to put their energy forward and speak out to legislators as the proposed cuts will further cripple any support/educational/prevention efforts put forth by rape crisis centers who have struggled for years to get the attention of adults to the severity of sexual abuse and the enormous impact on society as a whole. We can no longer afford to turn off the television or turn the page of a newspaper because it's content is too disturbing. It is all of our jobs to educate ourselves as adults and learn how to be real advocates for children. We need to stop embracing the old adage of "what happens in the privacy of one's home...should stay private". Right now thousands of young children are waiting for us as adult to rescue them from the horrors of their abusive environments. Instead, vital energy is spent debating fault. It is all of our faults. Think about the child out there that is waiting for you to come and help them. Stop passing the buck...Stop allowing our Governor to slash the funding necessary to reach these kids and potentially save a life or two.
Posted By:Keith at March 19, 2008 1:48 PM(Suggest Removal) I couldn't disagree with you more suzanne. The news paper should not be filled with all "Mickey Mouse" stories meant to delude the public into thinking that everything is ok. There are far worse things going on in the world (i.e. genocide in Darfur, child soldiers in Africa, spread of extremism worldwide, etc) that rarely make headlines that if more Americans knew about, and were vocal about, maybe something could get done. I'm disappointed that the Sunjournal doesn't do more of these world stories. And I certainly wouldn't want them to ignore major local issues. If you want your kids to read the paper...give them the comics page.
Posted By:Laura at March 19, 2008 2:22 PM(Suggest Removal) ALAN - you sound so ridiculous. IF this young man was SEXUALLY, physically, mentally, and emotionally abused by his MOTHER (did I mention MOTHER?!) and he never received therapy, I can see how someone like him could "snap" and kill her for all that he endured (and maybe was still going through).
Murder is terrible yet (for you Christians) Luke 17:2 basically says, "It is better that a Mill Stone be hanged about his neck, than to offend one of these little ones." Do you know how big and heavy a Mill Stone is? This essentially means that the abuse of a child is terribly egregious. The effects of Child abuse (especially sexual) are tearing this country apart, and it needs to be stopped. Yes, Matthew is an adult but "we" failed him. He should have been protected from his EVIL "mother." So, if in fact he was horrifically abused by his own MOTHER, that ABSOLUTELY needs to be taken into consideration. Did I say he should not be punished? NOPE. He will still need to be accountable, and honestly I'm not sure what I would recommend but the young man needs our empathy. You certainly do not have to give it, it's a free country.
My thanks to sam for this:
Posted By:sam at March 19, 2008 6:07 AM (Suggest Removal)
Mental illness from abuse is real. It changes your brain's ability to have impulse control and to consider consequences of actions.
Posted By:Gary at March 19, 2008 3:01 PM(Suggest Removal) Whoever at DHS dropped the ball on this when it was reported should be the one on trial here. What crapola that we taxpayers actually support these state employees that can't even function at their well paying jobs.
Posted By:ojhuig at March 19, 2008 3:18 PM(Suggest Removal) Reader, what is this world coming to? Maybe it will become a place where abusers are not protected by their community.
Posted By:bubba at March 19, 2008 3:28 PM(Suggest Removal) allen- if what we read is true he did not murder a human being. she is nothing more than skum.
Posted By:Blue Eyes at March 19, 2008 4:33 PM(Suggest Removal) Alan, thank you for sharing your story and I know how difficult it must have been for you. I'm also sorry you felt you had to tell us all about this. I do want to say, again, that I do not agree with what Mathew,nor Scott did. I simply can understand where they were coming from. I also agree with what 'just a thought' stated about making a conscious effort to get help and get better. Thats what I chose to do. The one thing I do have to say that in Mathew's situation..it sounds as though his abuse by at least his poor excuse of a Mother had to have been extremely horrible. I can only imagine how she made him feel and he may not have had the ability to make that conscious effort that so many of us had. The extent of his abuse could very well have robbed him of more then we realize. But no....this does not constitute murder. Again, we do all have different breaking points. Again,Alan....you certainly have my respect and I am very sorry for what you went through.
Posted By:Iwoulddothesame at March 19, 2008 5:12 PM(Suggest Removal) An adult that commits a sex act on an 8-year old is NOT having a "relstionship" with them...IT IS CALLED MOLESTATION...PERIOD...regardless of what the kinship is!!!
Posted By:just me at March 19, 2008 6:19 PM(Suggest Removal) Suzanne, maybe you should do a brief google for the police affadavit so you can read exactly what is what, before accusing this newspaper of printing 'tabloid trash.'
I for one am glad that the SJ puts these issues out there.
Posted By:ojhuig at March 19, 2008 6:22 PM(Suggest Removal) That's cruel. Pick on the newspaper if they write that way, but not on some woman who stepped out of her apartment to comment.
Posted By:unknown at March 19, 2008 8:03 PM(Suggest Removal) i knew both of the men in the two recent murder trials, Audet & Poirier and do i think what either of them did was right...ABSOLUTLY NOT! however i also have a good friend that was raped when she was in elementary school...finally came out with it when she was in high school and NOTHING was done....nothing...the man that raped her is walking free in our neighborhoods........
Posted By:Marilyn at March 19, 2008 9:09 PM(Suggest Removal) Alan, I don't need reminding he murdered someone...if you read my comment again, I said most of the population DON'T agree it was right to kill his mother!
Posted By:Angela at March 20, 2008 8:01 AM(Suggest Removal) If people think that abused kids are falling through the cracks now, just wait until all the budget cuts get put into place. Quite literally Child Protective is going to look more like a triage unit. If the kids are not bleeding they will have to wait.
We as a society can not cry out about the great need of a service, and trust me there is a need, but then refuse to fund it. It is children like this one that gets lost.
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