Jennifer Chretien

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Dan, seriously? This is

Dan, seriously? This is about medicine not politics. Unfortunately it's not uncommon in medicine for people to die even when everyone does everything they should and can to help save a patient's life. Mrs Morse's being left on the side of the road was very unfortunate and in my opinion a case of poor communication on the part of both she and the driver of the ambulance. I don't believe it in any way reflects the level of medical care provided to Mr Morse. Maine Medical Center's interim chief of the Dept of Emergency Medicine also reviewed this investigation and came to the same conclusion that the medical personal did everything they should have done. Did the big bad Governor influence him too? No, I'm not a LePage supporter, I simply don't believe he had anything to do with this investigation. I would trust the medical personnel from North Star with my family and friend's any day of the week.

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He claims that his civil

He claims that his civil rights are being violated. What about the civil rights of his victim? I find it interesting that when criminals are being held responsible for their actions they suddenly start to be concerned about civil rights. They weren't concerned about that when they were violating the rights of the people they were committing crimes against. If my understanding of the timeline of this case is correct I find it very interesting that Mr Tomeselli didn't make his accusations about Mr Fine until after he had been charged with his crime. I'm not saying I don't believe he was abused, I do find myself wondering if he is trying to use it as an excuse for his actions. That may sound awful, but I do wonder. No one deserves to be subjected to abuse of any kind, and in my opinion having been abused NEVER justifies abusing someone else.

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That's a good idea, I have

That's a good idea, I have been able to do that for things that cost less. For some reason I hadn't thought of that for the dentist, I'm not sure why. Thanks

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Dental care is expensive, I

Dental care is expensive, I haven't been to a dentist for a cleaning in 5 years because I simply can't afford it. In the last 6 months I have called the dentist I have seen in the past, the community dental office in my area, and the UNE dental hygiene clinic to see what it will cost to be seen. Since it has been so long a full set of x-rays is required, to be seen locally it will cost a minimum of around $125. I don't have $125 in my budget to buy groceries, and payment plans are not looked upon favorably, which I do completely understand. To go UNE will cost $50 including the x-rays, though I don't remember if you actually get seen by a dentist after the cleaning. This on the surface this cost less but I need to take a day off from work plus gas to drive to Portland and back, so it isn't necessarily less in the end. I'm not saying that I expect the tax payers to cover the costs, I would like to do it myself, unfortunately some of us simply don't have the means. I have Maine Care and yes it would initially pay for me to see my Dr or go to the ER if I had a problem. Personally I would like to avoid that and be able to afford to see my dentist for preventive care.

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I wasn't blaming anyone for

I wasn't blaming anyone for anything Kathy. Actually the point of my post was that everyone experiences loss; specifically Libby and the mother of the young man who killed himself, and that we can't really understand how much someone's loss impacts them. In NO way was I trying to criticize Libby for her response. I was just trying to say that this young man's mother was also dealing with the loss of her child. I also posted a comment to Libby expressing my condolences for her loss and how this incident impacted her.

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Libby, I am very sorry for

Libby, I am very sorry for your loss. As I said in another comment I don't have children but I watched my grandparents suffer the loss of two of their three children. I saw how crushing that was for them, and cannot pretend to know what that feels like. I think I can understand your anger, the place were your daughter is buried is a sacred place and for this to happen there makes things that much harder. Speaking as someone who has struggled with depression severe enough to not want to live I don't in any way believe the young man chose that place to make your loss any more difficult. I will keep you and this man's family in my thoughts, may you all find some peace as you deal with your losses.

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I don't mean in all cases, I

I don't mean in all cases, I do believe that it is true in most cases. Also I guess what I mean is in the long term. If someone is suicidal maybe you can prevent it today, but if they really truly want to die unless you never leave them alone they are likely to find a way at some point. I was recently hospitalized for depression ans feeling suicidal; I was discharged after a week and feeling much better. I'd be lying to say those thoughts never leave my mind 100%. If I get to the point where the pain is unbearable and I can't see any end to it and I've lost the strength to keep fighting I'll find a way. Today I have the strength to keep fighting, most of the time that strength comes from not wanting to hurt my family and friends. I do fear someday that won't be enough and if that happens I will find a way, regardless.

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I agree, I will also say

I agree, I will also say there is no manual on how to survive your son's suicide. Let us all be compassionate to those who are grieving. Losses come in many ways; murder, suicide, illness, accident etc. Everyone's loss is devastating to them, you can't compare one person's loss to another's. I don't have children, I did watch my grandparents experience the deaths of two of their three children and saw how absolutely crushing it was for them. At some point in our lives we will all lose someone close to us. I believe that in the midst of our loss it is still possible to have compassion for someone else experiencing a loss.

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I make these comments from

I make these comments from the perspective of having been depressed enough to want to kill myself. It's easy to say this never should have ended this way. First of all none of where there and therefore don't know how what techniques the police used to try and talk this young man out of killing himself. We have no idea who else the police called in to help talk to this man. Secondly if someone is determined to kill themselves there is little if anything anyone can do to stop them. It is sad but I believe that it is true. It's easy to sit back; read an article which with all due respect to the Sun Journal doesn't have all the details, and judge how the police handled a situation. I personally won't do that, I know the darkness this young man was feeling and I am sorry for the outcome, and give my condolences to his family.

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I hear you, coming together

I hear you, coming together is a phrase that is not in the governor's vocabulary. His response to the bipartisan budget was quite frankly a bit scary. No Kumbaya necessary, I appreciate being able to share opinions whether the same or different in this forum. Keep them coming as I will also. Have a good day!

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No disrespect intended here,

No disrespect intended here, in my opinion your comments don't seem to encourage coming together to solve any problems. I'm not defending the governor's divisive tone by any means. I get a bit of the same tone from your comments just coming from the other side of the issue. Again I'm not trying to be disrespectful, I just think that one side has to come at this (or any) issue with a tone of respect. I've really haven't heard it from the governor so maybe it needs to come from the other side. Just my opinion.

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I like the teacher and

I like the teacher and administration evaluation piece. Teaching our children is one of the most important jobs out there, there really needs to be accountability. In any other job you have to do your job well or find a new one. Why don't we give our children the respect they deserve by weeding out the bad teachers who aren't doing their jobs and preparing them for the future. I really don't like the public funding of religious schools proposal, from any angle really. First you have the separation of church and state, public money shouldn't be funding religious education. Second if I were part of a religious school and took public money I would be concerned that then the state has it's foot in the door and may try to direct what I can and cannot teach. I have no issue with private/religious schools but in my opinion there needs to be a clear separation from public money.

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I personally like the current

I personally like the current set up. I wouldn't be opposed to the PM feature, I assume you could have to choice to opt out if you weren't interested. I think that all comments should be posted even if some feel they are inappropriate. On yahoo if a comment receives a large number of dislikes then it is still there but hidden and you have to click on it to read or respond to it. I honestly don't know how that is determined as far as how many dislikes it needs to be hidden. If you have to have your full name posted then I don't think your comment should be removed, you're taking responsibility for your comments by your name being public so say what you want and take your chances on potential backlash. The feature of 'hiding" a comment warns people they may be offended and can chose not to read it.

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Hospital officials would have

Hospital officials would have been extremely irresponsible to make any kind of public statement based on information they heard from a newspaper reporter. You may see it as stalling I see it as being smart. Just because the ER staff had spoken to Mrs. Morse and told her that her husband had not come into the ER does not equal the hospital administration being contacted by the family or having any more detail about the situation. Why don't we let the facts come to light before we play judge, jury and executioner to this ambulance crew and FMH as a whole. I would rather this is dealt with thoroughly and rationally but that's my opinion.

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Here's a question...why don't

Here's a question...why don't they get this independent analysis of the consequences of a law before the it is voted on???

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These are very serious

These are very serious allegations and I do believe they will be investigated thoroughly by FMH officials. I do understand Mr. Morse's wife is grieving and this is a very hard thing to deal with right now. Having said that it's my opinion that these kind of allegations should have been reported to the hospital before being brought to the media.

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Dan, Take a deep breath...it

Dan, Take a deep breath...it hasn't even been 48 hours. Give the police a chance to give all the evidence to the district attorney, it's his/her job to officially file charges against a person. Wait a few days before you give yourself a stroke freaking out about something that may take a few days to happen. There was an accident here in August where a young girl was killed when a tractor trailer full of wood chips took a corner too fast an tipped over landing on the vehicle she was riding in. It was only in the last 4-6 weeks that they decided whether or not to file charges. This stuff doesn't happen overnight. Besides if they make these decisions too fast and don't have all the i's dotted and t's crossed the defense attorney will find the mistakes and the person goes free. I'd rather let them do it right and have the charges stick but that's just me.

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I think the picture on the

I think the picture on the food stamp card is worth looking into. Honestly as far as it being stigmatizing, most people know what the food stamp card looks like and look critically at what you purchase with it to begin with how is my picture on it going to make it any worse? The only real problem I can see with the picture is that there are people who are home bound or if someone is ill they have a family member or a friend/neighbor shop for them but I'm sure something can be figured out for that. It will have a expense initially but it may well save a lot in the long term.

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I hope they catch more of the

I hope they catch more of the people who are abusing the system like this. Not only does it take away from those who really need it, it also makes those who need it look bad. The actions of some can cause people to assume that everyone is the same. As someone who receives food stamps and Mainecare due to a disability, I really get angry because I get looked down on because some people misuse or lie to to get benefits they don't really qualify for. I have been able to work part time and therefore I am a taxpayer, I realize how limited the money for these programs is and I appreciate that I have them. Without my Mainecare I wouldn't have access to some of the services that have helped my improve my condition and allowed me to start working again. Keep up the good work we need to continue to stop this fraud of the system so we can help those who really need it.

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Clearly the Mainecare program

Clearly the Mainecare program is unsustainable as it is currently running, I think that is obvious and changes need to happen. I haven't always agreed with everything Gov. LePage has proposed in the past and don't agree with all of the proposed cuts to Mainecare. I do think that the cuts need to be done responsibly. If what I have recently read is correct; that Medicaid/Mainecare was originally created to be a safety net for our most vulnerable, the elderly, children and the disabled, maybe we need to look to making those groups the priority. In the interest of full disclosure, I receive Social Security, Medicare and Mainecare due to a disability. I am extremely grateful for these programs. In the past 3 years I have started working again, only part-time currently 10-13 hours a week, as that is all I can manage at this time. Honestly without the services Mainecare and Medicare provide I wouldn't be able to work right now. I do understand that I may lose some services and that will honestly make things more difficult for me. I struggle to survive month to month and don't honestly know how I would absorb any additional out of pocket expenses. At this point all I can do is send my concerns to the Maine Legislator and tell them what losing those services would mean to me personally. I don't want to lose the progress I have gained and have to stop working because certain services are cut, at the same time I may need to make some sacrifices to help sustain the program as a whole. My sincere hope is that the cuts that are made are responsible and protect those most in need.

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I could be wrong but if they

I could be wrong but if they are referring to the proposed changes to the DHHS budget things could get worse for some people. If your income isn't enough to heat your home or but enough food for your family losing medical coverage will make things more difficult, there's no question in my mind about that. I don't want to debate how we got to this point and yes the Mainecare program needs restructuring. The changes that are being put forth will have a negative effect on people already struggling to make ends meet.

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I am not from Lewiston and

I am not from Lewiston and did not follow the election thoroughly. I have seen and read bits and pieces over the last several weeks. I can't comment on whether or not Mr. Macdonald will make a good mayor. I will say this; I do hope he wants to bring the city together as he states in this video. I also understand his being angry for any untruths spoken about him during this campaign. However in my opinion the things he said last night will not help bring people together. They may likely pull the sides further apart. To essentially threaten members of his opponent's campaign will not bring Mr.Paradis supporters on board. I hope that he can see this and work towards being more effective in his goal of bringing people together and helping the city of Lewiston. Good luck to the city of Lewiston.

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I don't live in Auburn but it

I don't live in Auburn but it seems to me that if Mr Emery is correct in saying the plow blades were 2+ inches off the road it really doesn't matter how many tucks were out and how often, you're still going to be driving on 2+ inches of crap.

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I have an honest question

I have an honest question about the methadone programs. Do the people getting methadone required to attend any other type of rehab program. If the issues that lead to the drug use in the first place are not addressed then methadone alone will not work. I realize this is an added expense but I think it would be more successful than methadone alone. The treatment offered needs to be something that is going to work otherwise why bother?

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I have to agree, like I said

I have to agree, like I said in my comment this isn't a simple black and white issue.

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Are we spending beyond our

Are we spending beyond our means without a doubt. Tough decisions have to be made and for some more than others those decisions will make things harder than they already are. The black and white thinking that I'm reading here is mind boggling. Not everyone who receives mainecare is simply looking for something for nothing. I'm willing to bet many people really don't want to need help, they would rather be able to provide for themselves, that is not always possible. For all the holier than thou folks who have never been in need consider yourself lucky and stop looking down on people whose situations you know nothing about. Things do have to change our current system is clearly unsustainable but these cuts will effect real people. People who may not be able to pay for uncovered services and prescriptions. People who can't afford to acquire debt for those services and will not get them as a result. This will be detrimental to their well being. The alternative I think will be an increase in ER visits because people know they can't be turned away. I don't have the answers but I know it is not as simple as most people want it to be.

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I agree, let's wait and see

I agree, let's wait and see what the plan is before we freak out. Although I'm willing to believe that there is some connection between the comment about the state not having the money to continue covering these people and the upcoming plan to save money from the Mainecare budget, let's wait and see. There will be plenty of time to have a fit once we hear the actual plan from the governor.

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Black ice is evil! Two years

Black ice is evil! Two years ago I hit some black ice, went off the road and hit a tree. I was lucky that despite a faulty airbag I walked a way with just a broken rib and some bruises. Thankfully the officer was not hurt, cars can be fixed.

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Abuse is NOT consensual!!

Abuse is NOT consensual!! That's why it's called abuse. He (Tomaselli) should not have been abused and his abuser should be held accountable without question. I hope that his victim is getting help. He says that he doesn't want to blame his father or Fine for what he did but I get the feeling that that is his excuse for what he did. He says, "the only thing that transpired was the same stuff that happened to me." That feels to me like he's trying to minimize what he did. Maybe I'm wrong but that's the feeling I get. I hope I am wrong and I sincerely hope he genuinely wants to get himself help. What happened to him was wrong and what he did was just as wrong.

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As I have said before I

As I have said before I cannot judge this officer. I was not there and didn't see the exchange or the tone and body language in his interactions with Justin. Let me be clear, I don't believe it should have come to the point where Justin had to die and although the officer pulled the trigger, it should have been easier for Justin to get help. I think the bigger picture here is that ealy intervention may have been able to prevent this. If I'm not mistaken he had been in court the day before and been ordered to undergo a psychological evaluation. Why didn't anyone involved know about the law mentioned in the article that would have allowed his family to insist he get help. It may not have helped Justin given certain circumstances but we'll never know. If any good can come of this tragedy maybe Justin's death will bring more awareness to the greater issue of PTSD in out vets. We as a society need to have a better understanding of mental illness and realize it is not a weakness or a result of laziness. It takes great courage to ask for help and if our society were more supportive maybe and let go of the "just suck it up" mentality things could be better for everyone.

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I haven't had cable since the

I haven't had cable since the end of July. I'm happy to report I'm still alive but it was touch and go for awhile. Missing the end of the NASCAR season was painful. I have Netflix live streaming through my Blue-Ray player, it has some of my favorite shows including Doctor Who through 2010, not bad. I do miss my sports, although at least I didn't witness the Red Sox meltdown firsthand. I hope to get cable again, though I'm not holding my breath.

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I'm choosing not to get

I'm choosing not to get involved with the discussion of who was right or wrong in this situation. I do want to say a bit about our vets. We send these young men and women into combat expecting them to see and do horrific things. Things most of us are unwilling and unable to do, they do this so that we can continue to have the freedom that we are used to. I know I couldn't do the things they have to do. I don't believe anyone can come away from these experiences unaffected. When they return from war we don't want to know about it, we want them to "suck it up and get over it". At best these attitudes are wrong and I would call them a disgrace to their service. I've heard people say that WWII vets just came home and went back to their lives. Maybe they shouldn't have had to, maybe they suffered silently for the rest of their lives. We need to have more respect for these war vets and provide them with the care they need and deserve, it's the least we can do, too many soldiers lose their lives, and their bodies are forever damaged. Those wound we can see are respected, the invisible wounds to peoples souls also need to be respected and treated. Just my opinion.

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A big thank-you to the caller

A big thank-you to the caller who reported this and protected the children. If she was having trouble standing up I can't imagine how dangerous she would have been drivivng. The .247 blood alcohol level definately explains the mug shot. I've seen arogant mugs shots but rarely happy ones.

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That's great!!

That's great!! Congratulations Christy on being able to take off the helmet. Great job Moxie, you have given Christy back her independence.

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I've read several

I've read several opinion/letter to the editor pieces about this ballot question. I can see the argument on both sides. Being able to register to vote on election day does make it easier for people, where as registering prior to can help to minimize potential voter fraud. However I can't say that I believe that this law takes away our fundemental right to vote as I've heard people claim, you can still vote. I think what it does is give us a responsibility to get to the town office before election day if we want to vote. This is America where we want the rights with no responsibilities. This is just my opinion. I'm not saying I agree with the law nor am I telling people how to vote. I'm just saying putting the requirement to register before election day to me does not equal taking away your right to vote.

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I don't believe that the

I don't believe that the letter was intended to intimidate anyone. I read the letter in a previous article and what I got from it was; you're registered to vote in Maine, by doing so you have declared Maine your state of legal residence. If this is correct Maine law requires that if you have a driver's license or own a car you need to have a maine driver's license and register your car in Maine. If this in incorrect you may unenroll as a Maine voter. Quite simple in my opinion. Personally I think it would be much simpler to connect one's state of legal residence to the state from which you file your federal taxes. As far as the letter goes if people where unsure of what it meant call the office from which it was sent and clarify it's intention. I don't think that's too much to ask.

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When it comes to people who

When it comes to people who only live in Maine for part of the year I think determining residency could be tied to which state address do you file federal taxes from. To me this is more clear than if you go to school here and drive mom and dad's car or maybe don't have a driver's license. I didn't get my license until I was 23 and had graduated (I've always lived in Maine so it didn't matter as far as voting). Absentee ballots allow everyone to vote. Granted you have to think ahead and request one early and submit it on time, however if voting is that important to you you'll get id done. Not to make this any more complicated than it has already become but students are not the only people to live in state part of the year. People winter in the south, some summer in maine, also I've heard poeple will own homes in more than 1 state and claim residency based on taxes. So maybe there is a better way to determine one's residency than driver's license for part time residents.