Stacey Wing

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Are you kidding?

It has been made clear that someone that thinks little, or not at all made the initial mistake. That mistake was corrected. So now we must pay for a hearing for this issue? Gross mismanagement of funds, while this man cannot provide for his family. Can someone please just think for once? The stupidity is astounding. By the way, Mr. Burton I commend you, you provide a service most people wouldn't have the stomach (or other body parts) to do.

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Facts

Just to make it clear, the truck driver was at fault. The actual police report states that. Also, Gregg has a compound fracture, his ankles are fine. He is still hospitalized, 3 surgeries done at least 1 more to go.

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Slum

Everything could qualify as historical. That doesn't mean it's interesting to anyone or worth holding on to. The buildings referred to in the article are not only eyesores but are simply areas that drugs and crime are drawn to. Historical garbage is still just garbage. The space could be used for things that are useful to the area and may become attractive as a potential sale for someone looking to develop if it was an empty lot rather than something that needs an insane amount of money to refurbish or tear down. The Maine State Historical Commission needs to step aside unless they personally are going to refurbish the properties within the next 3 months (so it doesn't sit for yet another 7 years) without expecting us to contribute. Let's get realistic about the health of our community.

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Smiting? Ya we have a lot of those in our book too,

that doesn't mean all Christians are going to start doing it.
1 Samuel 23: Therefore David enquired of the LORD, saying, Shall I go and SMITE these Philistines? And the LORD said unto David, Go, and SMITE the Philistines, and save Keilah. Numbers 25:17 Vex the Midianites, and SMITE them: Jeremiah 21:6 And I will SMITE the inhabitants of this city, both man and beast: they shall die of a great pestilence.
Ah, but the most important one that republicans are ignoring in their race to out their "enemies" including anyone that may utter a liberal thought? Deuteronomy 19:11 But if any man hate his neighbor, and lie in wait for him, and rise up against him, and SMITE him mortally that he die, and fleeth into one of these cities: 12 Then the elders of his city shall send and fetch him thence, and deliver him into the hand of the avenger of blood, that he may die.
Anyone can cherry pick a religious book. Want scary? Done. Want joy? Done. Want to feel self righteous without feeling guilty about your own sin? Done. Being a Selective Christian won't get you into heaven and being a Muslim doesn't automatically send you to hell.

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The majority voting on the minority

I'm wondering why we haven't had a vote to have all priests under surveillance ala "big brother". Its all fine and dandy to say that a moral issue should be voted on, ignoring the law, but how would the priests feel if my moral outrage over their molestation cases was brought to a vote and the majority decided that the molestation percentages were high enough that they all need to live under 24 hour surveillance? Would we be removing their right to privacy legally?? Beyond that the only way to not discriminate against gay couples if they are denied marriage is to remove the rights that only married people enjoy, there are over 100 of them including tax breaks and benefits.

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Thinning the herd

Science (the scary voodoo thing) has shown that being gay is genetic not a choice. God has chosen genetics to stop the over population of the earth that strains all of the resources God gave us :) Don't want gays? Stop reproducing. Marriage is a religious ceremony. No one's religious ceremony should be recognized by the state. We should have to file business partnerships to gain the benefits from the state. If gays bother you, stop being perverted by thinking about someone else's bedroom life. To end: If you think your voting against gay marriage to "save the sanctity of marriage" then the state should be very literal and revoke all divorces it has granted, they destroy the sanctity of marriage far faster than a gay marriage will.
PS- Shellfish and polly/cotton blends are a sin!!

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Defending the hit and run?

To anyone posting that this was an accident, you may want to take a look at the facebook and myspace accounts of these guys. This was pre-meditated. The passenger in the car stated hours before that they were planning a crime against the victim and they all claim to be in a gang. That's right, a bunch of back woods Maine white boys throwing gang slang. There is no defense. The previous issues with the victim were dealt with in court. Street vigilantism by "gang" members is not okay. A lot of grown people need to actually grow up, get a job, and make a life for themselves instead of acting like they are in high school fighting over girlfriends.

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Being young is an excuse?

Sorry Sista, but no. I was a single 18 year old mother. I NEVER endangered my child. When I got pregnant I had to leave childhood behind. Your sister is responsible for everything for that child and there is no way she didn't think what she did was stupid unless she was stoned out of her mind. No one thinks it's okay to leave a baby alone in a car, or that it's legal. Anyone using that excuse needs to get real, 20 years ago when my son was born everyone knew not do do such a thing and they are even more aware of it now. There is no excuse for this behavior and it only shows the obvious carelessness these parents have. No one that I know that read this story today had one single ounce of sympathy for them. Again, no excuse at all. They are screw ups and don't deserve to have a kid. I don't know them, and don't have to, I see their kind every single day and all I can think when I see them is "God, someone needs to take that poor kid away before they screw it up permanantly.".

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Read this then tell me this

Read this then tell me this isn't about second class citizens and hate mongering! This has been approved for circulation: Citizen Initiative Petitions Currently Approved for Circulation for the 2010 Ballot

TITLE: An Act to Remove Protections Based on Sexual Orientation from the Maine Human Rights Act, Eliminate Funding of Civil Rights Teams in Public Schools, Prohibit Adoptions by Unmarried Couples, Add a Definition of Marriage, and Declare Civil Unions Unlawful
Issued: May 21, 2008; 18-month deadline: November 21, 2009

If this was circulated about you how would you feel? If I got a petition approved to prohibit you from anything at all, how exactly would you feel? Prop 1 was just a stepping stone to further strip people of any right to dignity or respect and everyone that fell for it were sheeple being led by evil disguised as your clergy. My husband, children and I will continue to add our votes to the side that views Jesus' love as all encompassing. I believe when the bible says judge not lest you be judged God meant it.

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Ezekiel 7:10 "The day is

Ezekiel 7:10
"The day is here! It has come! Doom has burst forth, the rod has budded, arrogance has blossomed!"
Please give us the Book, chapter, and verse that you interpret saying marriage is for reproduction. I cannot find it no matter how hard I try and I am in fear for my marriage because I cannot have children. The natural flow of these types of things leads one to believe that the religious sector will gain confidence after numerous wins and will turn their sites on the next batch of non believers and non conformists. History shows it can take as little as 14 years for this to happen (1918 - 1932) and we are several years into that time frame now.

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Have to make a correction

Have to make a correction there Ray, Americans for Truth does in fact link to and praise massresistance on their site, I will not discuss here the topic at the start of the page as it is not appropriate, but the next article down does say "Can it get any weirder, any more perverse? And then it does. Our good friends over at MassResistance once again have done the hard work of exposing part of the REAL homosexual youth agenda ..." So they are apparently unconcerned with being connected to a group listed in hate crime databases. And apparently approve of their bizarre and harassing tactics, some of which is posting pictures online of minor children without their parents consent.

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Wow Ray, I just spent time

Wow Ray, I just spent time looking at their sick site and reading related articles about their public appearances. Mr Camenker has spent time testifying that Nazi's didn't do anything to gays, and Mrs. Contrada lambasted her own child on the internet (poor kid, to be a lesbian and have that for a mother!). The Southern Poverty Law Center listed massresistance as a hate group.

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Great, another one looking

Great, another one looking for the volcano. We must only believe what we are told. There really are aliens in there, honest!

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You might want to look at

You might want to look at the groups from Cali and Utah that have been pouring money into this state for the yes camp. For example the anti-gay group, America Forever, based in Utah and founded by a brother and sister that immigrated to the US from Mexico sent out faxes to Maine businesses lambasting our Senators in picture and word as satanic witches and included a "kill Obama" video reference. What started this is a law that is in place, not put there by Californians, but rather by our own Governor. There are plenty of us in this state are sick of seeing hate and tired of hearing jokes about throwing gays off of bridges. Again, look up the 350 + Maine lawyers that debunked the lies told by the yes on 1 campaign.

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OMG your an idiot. I ask

OMG your an idiot. I ask everyone in the yes on 1 camp, do you appreciate the fact that people think you are all like this person?? Do you realize that all these arguments boil down to people hearing just this rhetoric? What's next? Are you going to claim that all gay people are going to dress up in hot pants and boas and drag your kids out of your home and into a parade??? Oh, I have a headache now. Moron.

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I'm sure that's the same

I'm sure that's the same inane argument that was used when they passed the law that blacks could marry whites.

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*Standing ovation* to Jon.

*Standing ovation* to Jon. Well said.

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Even with your numbers,

Even with your numbers, which you do not quote your source on (I would like to read the information myself), nor do you show which of those numbers are gay vs. straight, you still do not show how granting a human being the right to be in a legal monogamist relationship has anything to do with this particular argument. Are you simply afraid that the tax breaks will reduce taxes collected in this state? Do you really think gay people will go away if you vote yes? Could you possibly see that if people didn't have to hide they would be better protected from these diseases? I cannot continue to follow your distorted logic on disease. It really has nothing to do with the issue at hand, and the vote will not change our ability to see the stats differently. I'll let the documented sources I posted stand and this will be the last of my comments on this particular branch of this discussion.

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You deliberately

You deliberately misunderstand me. I do not have an issue with skin color, sadly the updated stats include that information. Your point is counter productive, as marriage inherently means monogamy and commitment to one partner which reduces the rates of disease, and you are voting to deny that right.

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"Despite the significant

"Despite the significant reductions in perinatal HIV transmission and cases of congenital syphilis in the United States, African-American children still remain at risk. In 2004, 71 percent of the infants reported as having HIVIAIDS were African American, and 63 percent of U.S. children younger than 13 years of age who had a new AIDS diagnosis were African-American. Also in 2004,44 percent of the reported cases of congenitai syphiiis were among African-American infants." source cdc.gov hiv_aa_dearcolleague.pdf. Those aren't stats about gay people, those are stats on children. The problem isn't about gays, it's about not having information to keep yourself and your unborn children safe when your sleeping with someone. You need current stats to validate your point.

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Source: cdc.gov 2009:

Source: cdc.gov 2009: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/aa/resources/other/pdf/HIV_AA_DearColleagu...
"We are now in the third decade of the HIVIAIDS epidemic. The epidemic has changed in many important ways. For example, there have been dramatic declines in the occurrence of new HIV and AIDS cases since the beginning of the epidemic and today, however, the news is not universally positive. Tragically, the majority of those affected by HIVIAIDS are African-Americans and other people of color, which is in contrast to the early years of the epidemic."
Again I ask, do you have anything that has current data? I do, I just gave it to you. Your beating a dead horse with the statistics that are well over 10 years old.

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Oh, my bad, my bad. I didn't

Oh, my bad, my bad. I didn't realize we were talking about the *conspiracy* stuff now. No need to quote a source, all conspiracy theory's are valid without proof, I forgot. Shame on me for not being "gullible" while listening to Limbaugh, Hannity, and Beck, they know everything and don't have to prove a thing. I forgot how broad a mind I'm dealing with, dismiss all proof and just go with the flow......... That's real and true. I think I found your volcano with the aliens in it, wanna go for a walk and see??

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Hook, when are you going to

Hook, when are you going to site your source?

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Property, I ask it of all

Property, I ask it of all people that are using the lies that hate groups from Cali and Utah are spoon feeding Mainers. What I asked is HOW it would affect you. Answer is - it wouldn't. Hope your kids don't have to hide things from you in the future due to your scared and closed mind. Oh, and FYI if your homophobic hate is hand in hand with hating immigrants, one of the big Utah hate contributors is an immigrant from Mexico that came up and set up shop to tell American's how to vote. How's she doing in your camp?

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Wikipedia: List of animals

Wikipedia: List of animals displayig homosexual behavior, with all referenced articles listed: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_animals_displaying_homosexual_behavior
The list is just to long to copy here. Laws of nature??

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You have not given any

You have not given any founded or logical reason for doing so. You refuse to attempt to rebut the medical proof given, and will not touch the fact that over 350 lawyers looked at all the lies being spread about this law and debunked them. You still continue to spout them. Do you have no factual proof of your standing? Are you seriously basing your voting on lies, fear, and hate? How sad.

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Sorry property, view my

Sorry property, view my response below. Trained professionals refuse to classify it as a mental disorder, the only people doing so are people with no medical knowledge at all. Sounds very "Scientology" to me. Sadly marriage and government go hand in hand, if you don't like that, then do what I suggested and petition to remove your religious word from my government and go get "civil unioned" to have the tax breaks the government offers.

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Quote your source? As for

Quote your source? As for procreation, then no one that cannot have a baby should be allowed to be married. Do you qualify? Do you also live by all of the commands in Leviticus? Let me know when your burning your fatted calf at your church door for your sins of the day, I'll bring the red dogs.

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LOL try doing a search with

LOL try doing a search with her name and "homosexuality" what you find is a bunch of people that thump a bible but don't live it proclaiming she's satin's minion for promoting equality. Nice try. There are a lot of her speeches printed that show her belief in equality and anti hate.

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APA CEO and Medical Director

APA CEO and Medical Director James H. Scully Jr., M.D., wrote:
“Based on scientific and medical evidence the APA declassified homosexuality as a mental
disorder in 1973 – a position shared by all other major health and mental health organizations
based on their own review of the science. I urge you to remove homosexuality from the ‘Physical
Disability Evaluation’ instruction.”
American Psychiatric Association document #200001 states in part: "Therefore, the American Psychiatric Association opposes any psychiatric treatment, such as reparative or conversion therapy which is based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that the patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation."
As for civil unions, no one is asking your church to marry them and civil unions do not give the same legal standing as a marriage does according to the government. If you don't like the use of the word then start a petition to remove it from the governments use for everyone, I'll sign up for that, until then this is what is available.
You still have not said how this will personally affect you.

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Nice sales pitch, made me

Nice sales pitch, made me revert back to google. Interesting blog about your publications here: http://arafatbd.net/url/35 and your opinions about 06/06/06 are also interesting (wrong, but interesting in that "if I took a psych class would I write a paper about her" interesting). Good to see that all the (for lack of a better word due to the information you yourself provide to the public) nutjobs are gathered together here.

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Doing a search of your key

Doing a search of your key words (outside of the "effeminate or masculine" 12 y.o.) leads to several interesting articles about s.t.d's and *gasp* African/American people. Does that mean that since I googled it it must be a current and true study?? Have I been mislead? Should we take random studies from the early 80's or 90's and apply that to creating a new law outlawing marriage and/or sex for certain nationalities? Oh the ignorance.... Please explain to me exactly how this law will directly affect YOUR life. Not some random "it's for the kids" or, "not in my church" stuff, but how it will walk into your front door and make your life worse? How will 2 people committing to each other for life, paying taxes, and being there to hold the others hand when they die affect your life personally? If you rationalize the statistics, they are for behavior that is not included in a committed relationship. Promiscuity happens across the lines and marriage is designed for monogamy. Confused 12 year old's commit suicide when they have no one to care enough to be there for them, but instead have someone telling them they are freaks of nature and that homosexuals should all die. Gay exploration as you put it, is here. It has been. Marriage will not increase it, it will give people the opportunity to simply say "I'm committed to this person for my life time" with the tax benefits and the right to make medical decisions that do not affect you directly at all.

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Oh, it's like beating your

Oh, it's like beating your head against a brick wall of ignorance. Do you think, if someone you love is dying, that anyone has the right to keep you from them? If your not married they can. In spite of power of attorney or any other papers, you can be kept in a waiting room while that person dies alone. Did your spouse tell you to pull the plug? If your not married it doesn't matter, you have no say. Do you enjoy the "married filing jointly" break you get on taxes? If I don't like the religion you got married in or if you make love sideways or upside down, should I be able to keep you from getting it? Should my child be allowed to tell your child that their parents are evil so they are going to hell because I don't like something you do? That is the extent of the school thing by the way, unless your feeding into the proven lies these paranoid idiots are giving you. But then again, if your feeding into them, then you probably believe fossils are a hoax and again we are beating our heads against the brick wall of your ignorance. More than 350 lawyers in Maine have debunked the lies told by the yes on 1 camp. Do your own thinking.

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Keep up the good work Hanan!

Keep up the good work Hanan!

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Okay, lets quote: ""Since I

Okay, lets quote: ""Since I was of legal consent at the time, the fifteen minute conversation I had with Mr. Jennings twenty-one years ago is of nobody's concern but his and mine. However, since the Republican noise machine is so concerned about my 'well-being' and that of America's students, they'll be relieved to know that I was not 'inducted' into homosexuality, assaulted, raped, or sold into sexual slavery." That would be the then 16 year old speaking, who was "of legal age of consent" ""In 1988, I had taken a bus home for the weekend, and on the return trip met someone who was also gay. The next day, I had a conversation with Mr. Jennings about it. I had no sexual contact with anybody at the time, though I was entirely legally free to do so. I was a sixteen year-old going through something most of us have experienced: adolescence." That would also be his statement.
As for "Czars", shall we research a list of President Bush's Czars? Czar is the word that uninformed people use when they are to lazy to look up the job title a person has, in order to scare the **** out of other people that choose to do no research of their own and assume that an entertainment company is "fair and balanced". That's like assuming that Comedy central is obligated to never tell a joke.

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The really sad thing here is

The really sad thing here is that Fox "News" is really Fox Entertainment. They cannot be held accountable for any mis-information they "report" because they are not held to the same standards that a real news broadcasting channel is held to. Beck is allowed to discuss things like poisoning people on his show because he is an "entertainer" not a news reporter. The same goes for the rest of the company. People would be able to be more realistic if they woke up to the fact that what they are thinking is a valid news source isn't held to any standards like ABC, CBS, NBC, etc. Do a simple search and you will see that they have been sued repeatedly for openly lying on air (one notably local one from Lewiston for repeatedly airing the "ham sandwich" story) along with being sued by Jane Akre & her husband after they were fired from the station after refusing to knowingly include false information in their report concerning the Monsanto Company's production of RBGH, a drug designed to make cows produce more milk, and many more. How can you willingly trust an entertainment company to give you real news when they openly allow that they manipulate for ratings??

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What would our founding

What would our founding fathers think about people using religion to make law?

"The Government of the United States is NOT, in ANY sense, founded on the Christian Religion." -- John Adams

"History, I believe, furnishes no example of a priest-ridden people maintaining a free civil government. This marks the lowest grade of ignorance of which their civil as well as religious leaders will always avail themselves for their own purposes."
-Thomas Jefferson, Dec. 6, 1813.

"Christianity neither is, nor ever was a part of the common law."-Thomas Jefferson, February 10, 1814

"In every country and in every age, the priest has been hostile to liberty. He is always in alliance with the despot, abetting his abuses in return for protection to his own." -TJ Mar 17, 1814

"Ridicule is the only weapon which can be used against unintelligible propositions. Ideas must be distinct before reason can act upon them; and no man ever had a distinct idea of the trinity. It is the mere Abracadabra of the mountebanks calling themselves the priests of Jesus."-TJ 30 July, 1816

"... I contemplate with sovereign reverence that act of the whole American people which declared that their legislature should 'make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof,' thus building a wall of separation between church and State."-TJ Jan. 1, 1802

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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Wow, glad you pointed out 29

Wow, glad you pointed out 29 and 30, you fit quite a bit of that pretty well.

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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"You people"??? LOL! Random,

"You people"??? LOL! Random, I'm married to a man, and I'm a woman. This isn't about you people. This IS about hypocrites shoving their religion down everyone's throats and expecting us not to choke. If you want to continue to thump your bible, try reading it. The only place it says anything about man lying with man is in Leviticus, if we must abide by that then you must abide by the rest of what it says:
Leviticus chapters 1 - 10
are directions on gutting, slaughtering, and sacrificing animals at the door of the church, and then putting the blood on and around the alter. Then you must burn the animal, all for your simple sins.
Leviticus chapter 18
has 1 line after 15 commands to not uncover nakedness from your mother all the way to your neighbors wife,"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it [is] abomination."
Leviticus 19
has a few that everyone breaks:
16Thou shalt not go up and down [as] a talebearer among thy people: neither shalt thou stand against the blood of thy neighbour: I [am] the LORD.
19Ye shall keep my statutes. Thou shalt not let thy cattle gender with a diverse kind: thou shalt not sow thy field with mingled seed: neither shall a garment mingled of linen and woollen come upon thee.
27Ye shall not round the corners of your heads, neither shalt thou mar the corners of thy beard.
Leviticus 20
9For every one that curseth his father or his mother shall be surely put to death: he hath cursed his father or his mother; his blood [shall be] upon him. (time to put your teenagers to death)
Leviticus 25
3 Six years thou shalt sow thy field, and six years thou shalt prune thy vineyard, and gather in the fruit thereof;
4 But in the seventh year shall be a sabbath of rest unto the land, a sabbath for the LORD: thou shalt neither sow thy field, nor prune thy vineyard.
5 That which groweth of its own accord of thy harvest thou shalt not reap, neither gather the grapes of thy vine undressed: [for] it is a year of rest unto the land.
(farmers cannot do anything every 7 years!)
29 And if a man sell a dwelling house in a walled city, then he may redeem it within a whole year after it is sold; [within] a full year may he redeem it. (so if you buy a house, and within a year the old owners want it back you HAVE to sell it back to them)
Let me know when your going to start slaughtering animals at your church door, I'll bring the red dogs.
"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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Kids already know about all

Kids already know about all the things that paranoid parents are to scared to talk about. The people that are freaking out are the same one's that say "my little johnny couldn't have done something bad, I know him better than that" while little johnny is pummeling the crud out of a kid at school. For those of you still freaking out, chew on this: If we acknowledge the fact that two people love each other (no need to allow it, it's already there) we then allow billions of extra dollars into our economy in wedding planning alone. Think about it, venue rentals, limos, tux's, dresses, cakes, rings, caterers, booze, and on and on. Why are you trying to keep the economy down?? To end, to those still paranoid, there are LGBT clubs in almost every school and your kids are in class and around gay kids every day. Get over yourselves.

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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Paranoia Rinoblast. Plain

Paranoia Rinoblast. Plain and simple. They are scared. It amuses me when grungy old men talk about "if that gay guy plans on hitting on me...". Ask any gay man around, the paranoid guys are the last ones any of them would find attractive, but that's what it boils down to. That and/or shame for their own secret desires!
(God forbid, someone call it like it really may be?!?!)

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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Are you unable to come up

Are you unable to come up with any other reference in the bible to argue this letter? Is that why you can only quote Ann Coulter (of all people, really? Why not Rush L? At least he attempts to sound intelligent when he's spewing)?
"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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All good points Jabba. I

All good points Jabba. I understand what your saying better than most will as my "husband" and I just had our ceremony and it was on the summer solstice at his request per his religion which is Pagan. I am a Christian. We did not get a license but are filing partnership paperwork for the insurance and medical rights. We will not participate in government biggotry, nor will we pay the fees that fuel the system to obtain the license.

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is argument of tyrants. It is the creed of slaves." William Pitt

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John, Thank you for your

John, Thank you for your wit, highly enjoyable! I wrote this letter, and before I had to cut it down to 250 words I had quite a bit of information on the book of Leviticus. It makes for interesting reading. There is a bevy of websites with search-able text on the bible now which makes it so much easier to find information. Even having read and re-read my bible I cannot remember each and every verse. The phrasing of "man lying with man" was spoken directly to Moses. The people against gays use it almost unilaterally across the board as their reasoning, but refuse to abide by all of Leviticus for their daily lives because it is the old testament so it does not apply. I fail to see how one verse applies but the rest does not.
Beside that issue though, I do believe what I stated, the government has hijacked a religious ceremony to get more money out of the people. I don't believe they have the right to do so. If religion wants to keep it's word, then let it. The government has no right to it anyway.

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The church obviously isn't

The church obviously isn't for "everyone". The church is for everyone willing to be exactly what the church says is the correct way to be. Your welcome as long as you believe everything they say you have to. If you don't then you aren't welcome. Sorry.