DEAR ABBY: I have recently returned home from a 3,000- mile driving trip.

Why don’t radio stations give their city of origin when they give their call letters/numbers? This would greatly help travelers who are driving through the area when it comes to traffic or weather problems. Sometimes a station will report a bad accident on the “outer belt” that drivers should avoid. But “outer belt” to what city? Am I approaching it, or is it behind me?

The same could be said about weather. The announcer may report a severe storm coming, but unless one knows what city is reporting, again, a traveler has no way of knowing if it’s ahead or behind where he or she is driving.

Please help to get the word out regarding the safety value of this one-second addition to these broadcasts. Thank you on behalf of travelers everywhere. – FRUSTRATED TRAVELER, MANSFIELD, OHIO

DEAR FRUSTRATED: Your frustration is shared by many people who travel the highways. I say this because your letter is not the first I have received carrying the same message. I hope that radio weathercasters will give your suggestion the consideration it deserves, because if they do, it could prevent accidents and possibly even save some lives.

DEAR ABBY: I had my first child eight weeks ago – a beautiful baby boy. I would like to let him stay with my parents; however, my mother refuses to clean her house. The place looks like it has been ransacked. There are piles of old newspapers, old magazines and old mail everywhere.

It’s not uncommon to find dirty dishes and utensils under the couch and on the floor. There are TV tray tables stacked 6 to 10 inches high with papers.

Abby, my baby’s safety comes first. I’m not germ-phobic, and I know a little dirt won’t hurt. But all those rubber bands and paperclips left on the floor could hurt.

Mom acts offended that I won’t allow my baby to be left at her home without me. My sister says I’m overreacting since her child “survived” all his visit. Am I being unreasonable? – APPREHENSIVE

DEAR APPREHENSIVE: When I began reading your letter, I thought you might be. Then I reached the part about the dirty dishes, rubber bands and paperclips left on the floor and realized the place could be a health hazard not only to your baby, but also to your parents, who could trip on the debris and injure themselves. Have you considered volunteering to help your parents clean the house, or treating them to a cleaning service?

I’m pleased your sister’s child has “survived” his visits to his grandparents’. However, to leave your child unattended there could be considered child endangerment, so I’m voting with you.

DEAR ABBY: This is the first time I have ever written to you, but I need you to help get the word out.

I was shocked to find out recently that people in their teens through their 40s do not know what a white cane means. Teachers should tell their children in class – as we were taught – that it means the person is blind or legally blind. – H.M.L. IN NEW HAMPSHIRE

DEAR H.M.L.: I agree!

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Write Dear Abby at or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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