Similar to a ball game, weddings can have programs to help guests learn about the game, players, uniforms and music. Though you don’t always get a program at a baseball game, not all weddings have a program. But, they can make your guests feel more relaxed at the ceremony because they know what to expect. Programs don’t have to make a hole in your wallet. There are no formal guidelines, so they can be as extravagant or conservative as you’d like.

The program can outline the ceremony verbatim or be a single sheet listing important details. It can be a small postcard or a thick booklet tied with a ribbon. Whatever you choose, pick a program style that reflects you. The most important part of your program is its content. Put your names at the top as well as the date and location of the ceremony. Next, list the events at the ceremony so guests can follow along. Include music, readings, poems or songs in the order they will happen. You can list any readings or songs in their entirety to encourage guests to join in.

Feel free to explain the meaning behind your selections as well as any religious rituals that will occur. You can’t forget to give a “who’s who.” Tell guests about your wedding party, family and anyone else who deserves attention. It makes the participants feel important and helps guests identify who is special in your life.

A program is also an appropriate place to remember a deceased relative or friend whom you wish could be there to share in your joy. You can close the program by thanking guests for being part your life. A wedding program doesn’t have to be a chore. It’s a way for both you and your guests to remember your special day in the years to come.