Here are 13 ways to break down the stereotypes of those who prefer two-wheel motorized transport.
When you see us moving past you quickly:

Don’t take offense or think we’re trying to “show off.” Ninety-five percent of the time, we’re trying to get out of your blind spot or taking ourselves out of a potential dangerous situation that has evolved around us. Distancing ourselves from you does not mean we want to race, but that we’re giving ourselves the edge we need at the moment.

When you hear our horn:

Don’t take offense or think we’re trying to aggravate you.All we’re doing is letting you know where we are, and we’re more than likely aware of your inattentiveness to us while you’re talking on a cell phone, eating, reading or involved in some other distraction to your driving. It’s important to us, and you, that you know we’re there.

When you hear our loud pipes:

Don’t become angry and hostile toward us. Yes, some are quite loud, but for some, there’s a purpose behind being loud. It’s about letting you know we’re close, and we’re hoping that our investment in this accessory will help save our lives. Our pipes are not about our ego; they’re a pride and personalization to our form of transportation.

When you see us in our clothes:

Don’t become fearful of us or think us weird. Our leather jackets, chaps, gloves and boots are the barriers between losing massive amounts of flesh should something cause us to go down, nothing more, nothing less. Safety gear is paramount to our riding. We wear patches on our jackets, and pins on our vests. These are symbols of pride and honor within our group(s): we are individuals giving back to those who gave.

These things bond us as a brotherhood and sisterhood among bikers. Not that we’re better than anyone else, but that we have the same kind of nobility and pride in our accomplishments as you may have in the various aspects of your life. I guess one could say; our patches and pins are the decals and the bumper stickers of our involvement with society and the general public, of which we are very pleased to be a part of in our own little way.

When you see us in a restaurant:

You don’t have to shield your child or feel intimidated. We have family, wives, husbands, children and loved ones too, just like you. We smile; we laugh and enjoy the moments we have. We are approachable, and would befriend you, if given the opportunity.

When you see us in a parking lot:

Don’t convince yourself that we’re there to “get you.” More than likely, we just finished a long ride and are taking a break. Or, we may be meeting up with other riders for a charity run for young children, or another worthy cause.

We may be admiring one another’s bikes, sharing our pride with other brothers and sisters, just like you do with your personal vehicle. It’s what we do. It’s a part of our lives, and we’d be more than welcome to share with you what riding a bike is all about. If you’d only ask.

When you see aggressive riding bikers:

Don’t put us all in the same stereotypical category as those whose behavior and actions would cause you to react in disgust and intolerance. Many of us do not agree with this style of riding either, and we know and understand that human nature tends to blend us all together. Most of us don’t want that title.

And don’t deserve it.

When you see a group of bikers on the roadways:

Give us the courtesy of sharing the road with you. Please don’t “move in” between several bikers in formation. This gets us very excited and nervous, especially when it’s done without due regard for our safety. Provide us with your awareness of the fact that we are much more vulnerable than you.

We don’t want to challenge you, for all of us are wise enough to know we’d lose that battle.

When you are turning left or entering a roadway/highway:

Look, then look again, and then look one more time. We can be easily hidden, and appear to be invisible by such things as a telephone pole, another vehicle, bright lights or the glare of the sun.

Or, we might be obscured by the beads hanging from your rearview mirror, perhaps among numerous other items that are displayed there. If you see us flashing our lights at you, or blowing our horn, we’re only trying to ensure that you will see us before tragedy changes both our lives.

When you are behind us:

Please give us the room we need and don’t tailgate. If you hit us, we’re going down hard. We don’t want to play games with you, we just want to enjoy the ride and the fresh air, and experience that which many of you never have. If we accelerate away from you, don’t interpret this action as though we want to drag race you. We’re only trying to take ourselves out of a bad situation if you insist on being too close.

When, and if, you experience road rage:

Don’t take it out on us just because we’re smaller than you and more vulnerable. Think about what you’re doing and the possible results. The consequences of your actions and choices could be detrimental to our well being, our families, our children and our loved ones.

Yes, there are those that can tend to annoy you, however, rage does not solve issues, but accentuate them. Nine out of 10 bikers will do everything they can to stay out of such situations, without causing harm.

When you have an opportunity to talk to us:

You’ll discover, outside any influence or stereotype you may have, that we are just as human as you are, but with different interests and toys. Many of us would give you the shirt off our back if it would brighten your day, or console you in some way. We’re really no different, and we drive cars, trucks and vans too.

So, meet us and greet us…you’ll be pleasantly surprised to be met with open arms.

Joyce Clark lives in Leeds.