It wasn’t too long ago that it was the groom’s right of marital passage to solely plan the honeymoon. Today, couples are discovering a new idea that makes honeymoon planning even more successful and fun – sharing.

“More couples are finding that they both want to be involved in planning the honeymoon, says Geri Bain, travel editor for Modern Bride magazine. “It makes sense that if both are involved, the chances of a mutually enjoyable time are greatly increased. That’s an important factor when it comes to planning one of the most important tips of your life.:

According to Joanie Flynn director of leisure and resort marketing for Hilton Hotels Corporation – which hosts thousands of honeymooners every year – the secret to selecting the right location is variety, spiced with romance.

“Honeymooners need to look for a destination that offers them choices. Some want to relax and bask in the sun, while others look for more adventurous activities or sports,” said Flynn. “We try to accommodate everyone. In fact, to help set the right mood for newlyweds, we offer a Romance Package that includes upgraded accommodations, complimentary champagne, late check-out and even breakfast in bed.”

For couples planning their honeymoon together, Los Angeles-based author and wedding consultant Leslie Aronzon, provides these tips:

• Give yourself time to unwind after the wedding before jumping into a hectic travel schedule. Relax at a nearby hotel, or arrange a day or two at a resort.

• Avoid planning a trip that requires spending most of your time traveling to and from your destination.

• Plan a budget! Decide how much to spend before your trip to avoid discussing money concerns during the honeymoon.

• Ask your travel agent about special value-added hotel features. This could save you time and money, Some hotels, like Hilton, offer romance and resort package deals.

• Let service people know you’re on your honeymoon – chances are they will be more sensitive to your needs.

• Confirm your reservations, activities, budget and vacation days ahead of time.

• Keep weather patterns in mind when planning and packing for trips. Check with the local hotel to make sure your honeymoon isn’t spent during a rainy or very humid season.

• Allow yourself time to get passports, visas or immunizations for international trips. New brides should remember to book airline tickets under their maiden or married name, whichever one matches their passport. And don’t forget replacement medical prescriptions. You never know when you might lose a contact lens!

For more information about romantic or relaxing trip destinations, couples should contact their travel agent or Hilton Hotels by calling 1-800-HILTONS, or by logging on to Hilton Hotels Internet Travel Center at www.hilton.com.