RAYMOND – Ryan James Messinger was granted his angel wings on March 6, following a lifelong illness. His final days were spent surrounded by family and friends that had touched him in some small way, throughout his short, yet very memorable life.

His life would seem too short to many, but for those who were touched by him, understood that the quality of existence far exceeds quantity of time in which you live it. His gentle smile could melt the hearts of those around him and though he never spoke a word, his voice and thoughts could always be heard.

Although his illness made him appear frail, he possessed strength, perseverance, the ability to overcome incredible odds and physical challenges. With his courage, he led us to believe that each day is a blessing and an opportunity to create lasting memories. He could spend hours rocking in his favorite chair, while cuddling close to those he loved so much. He enjoyed music, sleeping late and reading stories. He loved the color red, listening to the sounds of children, and especially laughter which would make him smile and sigh with contentment. He spent the summers camping with his family in Rangeley, a place he loved to watch the sunsets, sit by the campfire, and listen to the loons and the wind in the trees. It was one of the few places he could always sleep peacefully through the night.

With his passing we remind others that his life is one to be celebrated, although we will miss him every day, esepecially his winning smile, he will always remain forever in our hearts. Through his teachings about life, we were able to create wonderful memories, and it has been a privilege to be his parents. We are so thankful his sister, Meghan, met her brother and she will hold dear the memory of his gentle spirit.

He leaves behind many wonderful caregivers that provided love and support that enhanced his quality of life. His love extends to his wonderful nurses, Elaine, Hattie and April. There is a special place in our hearts for his best friend “Dr. Chris;” because of her continual dedication, love and support, he was able to survive some of his toughest medical challenges. He will be dearly missed by all his special caregivers at the Morrison Developmental Center, and his friends with The Jason Program. All of these special people, too numerous to mention, provided him with love and dignity in his life, and also in his death.

He is survived by his loving parents, Craig and Jennifer Messinger of Raymond; sister, Meghan Messinger; paternal grandparents, Bob and Gerrie Messinger of Kennebunk; uncle, Jeff Messinger of Phoenix, Ariz.; and cousins, Alex and Eric Messinger.

He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Albert and Jean Fish; and by one of his long-term nurses, Kathy G.