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Scott Poirier’s murder trial focused the community on the horror of sexual abuse. As a result, questions have been raised about why victims don’t speak up and get help for the devastating impact of the sexual abuse. The Sun Journal editorial (Jan. 29) insisted that victims should tell, and promised that “When victims speak, they should know now they will be heard.”

But sexual abuse victims know that it is not enough to be heard. They have often been repeatedly told by the perpetrator that no one will believe them, they will be in trouble, or something bad will happen to them (or someone/something they care about) if they tell. Or, they may have tried to tell and were not believed or were punished for suggesting such an “outrageous thing.”

The Sexual Assault Crisis Center is a place where victims will be heard, and believed. SACC provides support and assistance to anyone affected by sexual assault or sexual abuse, whether that experience occurred today or decades ago. That service is provided to both male and female victims/survivors, and to concerned others.

At SACC, we understand the courage it takes to speak up and deal with the impact of sexual abuse. We understand that it often takes years to begin that journey. And we also understand there may be lots of fears to overcome before making that first call.

Mostly, we understand that it is not enough for victims to be heard. They must also be believed.

Marty McIntyre, Auburn

Executive director, Sexual Assault Crisis Center

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