DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of two years will be attending a bachelor party in Las Vegas. We’ve never had any issues of infidelity, yet I can’t help but feel anxious about his upcoming trip. I know the scene that exists in Vegas — I’m in my mid-20s and I enjoyed my trips there when I […]
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Afternoon delight ends when wife stops to take a call
DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for many years, work long schedules, and actually sleep when we go to bed at night. Saturday afternoon, we had ”nothin’ to do,” so I suggested some hanky-panky. We were just getting into it when the phone rang. I told her to let it go to […]
New marine's mom wonders how often she should write
DEAR ABBY: My son and I are very close. He joined the Marine Corps (a decision I fully support) and shipped out recently. I had read on a Marine family site that frequent letters from home are encouraged, so I had letters written even before I got his mailing address. I sent off three letters […]
Adult child’s griping causing mom pain
DEAR ABBY: I have a super-sensitive adult child who calls me regularly to criticize another sibling. Mothers do not like to hear their children being criticized by anyone — including their siblings. It’s hurtful, no matter who does it. I’m an old lady, and I don’t need this stress. I love all my children. They […]
Divorcing mom eager to move on puts kids in awkward spot
DEAR ABBY: Please help with some advice regarding my children. My almost-ex-wife filed for divorce while asking me to ”work on myself.” She refused counseling despite our 17 years of marriage and two children, ages 12 and 10. While I was out of our family home — at her request — she was dating a […]
Clerk gets lesson in privacy from owner of a service dog
DEAR ABBY: Yesterday I was in a retail store with my service dog. The clerk asked me what kind of service dog she was and I replied, ”She’s my service dog.” She kept pressing me as to exactly why I have one, so I asked her if she was inquiring about my disability. When she […]
Meat-and-potatoes man pans his friend's vegan cooking
DEAR ABBY: I retired after a 40-year career. A friend from work, ”Bernie,” is the same age I am (62) but is still working. Six years ago, I had a serious health crisis. Three years ago, Bernie survived a heart attack. Since then, Bernie worries incessantly about dying. He exercises rigorously and eats a strictly […]
Racy texts from co-worker cause man's wife concern
DEAR ABBY: My husband, ”Ralph,” and I have been married for 30 years. He recently started receiving sexually oriented texts from a male co-worker I’ll call Mike. What Ralph once read aloud to me saying, ”He’s such a goof. Listen to this!” has now become covert reading for him. Ralph and I have no secrets. […]
Man's devotion to his family leaves girlfriend feeling lonely
DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I just moved in together. We have been a couple for seven years. Until now, we have lived with our parents. I knew moving in would be a struggle for him because he’s very close to his four siblings. Now that we’ve moved in, he calls and video chats with […]
Miscarriage causes woman to withdraw from friends
DEAR ABBY: I am at that age when most of my friends and colleagues are having children. I suffered a miscarriage (my first pregnancy) a few months ago, and I have been feeling depressed and helpless about the situation. We are seeing a fertility specialist, so I am positive about our chances. However, when my […]