DEAR ABBY: One night I woke up to my cat scratching at my bedroom door to be let in. When I got up and opened the door, I heard my parents making love. They were so loud it grossed me out, because my little sister is 10 and we share a room right next to […]
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Crush on teacher troubles student headed for college
DEAR ABBY: I’m a male who has graduated from high school and is about to start college in another state. I’m ready for a new challenge. The only thing holding me back is a romantic attraction I have toward one of my high school teachers. He and I are best friends, but I love him […]
Parents should teach kids about money
DEAR ABBY: Wouldn’t it make sense if grade school teachers set aside time, weekly or monthly, to go over some very generic information that kids need to learn? I’m talking about things like how important it is to have pets neutered and why, how to manage money, and show them what the average dad earns […]
Girl saddened by grandfather’s betrayal
DEAR ABBY: My grandfather recently went to jail for having child pornography on his laptop. The lawyers and everyone else say he molested me and my sister. I almost had to testify. I’m only 13 and have talked with people, but they don’t get it. I don’t want to talk to a therapist or anything, […]
Three-year-old terror looms over BBQ
DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have thrown a barbecue for all our friends every summer since we were first married. Over the last couple of years, our little party has morphed into a family-friendly event. Our problem is one of our good friends is now the mother of an insufferable 3-year-old boy. ”Fenton’s” behavior […]
Mom worried about wedding melodrama
DEAR ABBY: “Jane,” the daughter of a life-long friend, attended my son’s wedding with her husband. My son and Jane have known each other since childhood, and always flirted and acted as if they had a crush on each other. To make a long story short, after seeing each other during the weekend, my son […]
Cell phone conversations should be private
DEAR ABBY: This is my first-ever Dear Abby letter. I am disgusted by the lack of manners shown by cellphone users. I run an antique store in a small tourist town. I cannot tell you how many “insulted and incensed” customers I have asked to please leave my shop because they insisted on talking on […]
Teacher needs cheat-sheet to recall former students
DEAR ABBY: I have been teaching for 30 years in the same school district. I can’t tell you how many times 30- to 45-year-old men have come up to me and said, “You don’t remember me, do you?” When they were in elementary school, they were not sporting facial hair and didn’t have receding hairlines. […]
Wife with appetite for sex has husband who’s never hungry
DEAR ABBY: I am 38 and have been married to a good husband and provider for 11 years. We have two beautiful children and a lovely home. We appear to be the perfect couple. Our problem is, my husband seems to be intimidated by my sexuality. In the past, I have told my husband what […]
Exhausted caregivers must give themselves a break
DEAR ABBY: I think what “End of My Rope” (May 3) may have failed to say is that she’s tired of sacrificing her own life to care for her ill-tempered, terminally ill husband. Harsh as this may seem, it’s a fact. I have been caring for my father for eight years. He’s suffering from severe […]