DEAR ABBY: My fiancee and I have been arguing almost every day. We have been verbally and emotionally hurting each other. I love her very much, but she has a severe alcohol disorder, and I want her to stop drinking. She keeps begging me for money whenever she runs out of her own. She wants […]
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Aquarius: How you invest and handle your finances will get the boost you’ve been waiting for if you lower your overhead by splitting costs with others.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Stephen Amell, 44; Enrique Iglesias, 50; Melissa Gilbert, 61; David Keith, 71. Happy Birthday: Physical exertion will ease stress. It’s what you do that counts. Focus on acting, making a difference and maintaining a healthy and positive attitude. Refuse to let anyone back you into a corner or light a […]
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Parent and daughter still struggle to find balance
DEAR ABBY: I haven’t had a holiday with my grown daughter, “Charly,” since she left the state 12 years ago. When she came out as a lesbian, I wasn’t very accepting and didn’t handle it well. I have since apologized. Charly and her partner refuse to visit here unless I allow them to share the […]
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Capricorn: Don’t spend what you don’t have or get involved with people who request you do so.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Alexander Ludwig, 33; Sydney Leroux, 35; Breckin Meyer, 51; Amy Heckerling, 71. Happy Birthday: Offer what you can; nothing more. Your time is valuable, and you’ll want to expend your energy on beneficial projects, proposals and pastimes that support your chosen lifestyle. Home improvements will require undivided attention and hands-on […]
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Readers respond to writer who refuses to dye
DEAR ABBY: Regarding “Silver Girl in New York” (Jan. 5), whose husband is making her feel less loved because she decided to not color her hair anymore, this is her decision to make, not his. He needs to grow up. You advised her to wear a red wig when he is feeling amorous. What were […]
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Sagittarius: Keep the momentum going, and share your vision with the people you care about most.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Sasheer Zamata, 39; Gabourey Sidibe, 42; George Clooney, 64; Tom Bergeron, 70. Happy Birthday: Take the path that leads to peace of mind. Focus on what’s important to you and build your life with the preferences, patience and possibilities that offer comfort and convenience. Put your energy where it counts, […]
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Scorpio: Make choices that allow you to use your skills and experience extraordinarily, and you will discover a way forward that excites you.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Adele, 37; Henry Cavill, 42; Danielle Fishel, 44; Tina Yothers, 52. Happy Birthday: Preparation is the key to a successful year. Consider implementing personal changes. However, before heading in a new direction, be honest about what you want and how to make it happen. Consider your relationships with others and […]
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wife values gambling over her 10-year marriage
DEAR ABBY: The woman I’ve been married to for the last 10 years is spending her time away from home. She isn’t seeing another man or hanging out in bars. She leaves at any time of the day and goes to the casino. She also plays online throughout the day or evening. She stays out […]
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Libra: Your energy, vision and connections will collectively give you the edge necessary to get things done.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Rory McIlroy, 36; Erin Andrews, 47; Will Arnett, 55; Randy Travis, 66. Happy Birthday: Pick your battles wisely. Refuse to waste time and energy on people and matters you have no control over. Your best efforts will come from how you treat yourself, what you learn and how you use […]
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Mother dumps all of her problems in teen’s lap
DEAR ABBY: Ever since I was a child, my mom has regarded me as wise, thoughtful and intelligent. She has confided about family issues, tensions at church and cheating at her workplace. Abby, I don’t want to be her confidant. Am I doomed to always hear her never-ending problems? She creates them herself by jumping […]