DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together for nine years (married for seven). I moved into his house with him, and I’m still not on the mortgage. I work full time in the medical field and contribute to all the bills. We did meet with an attorney, and if, God forbid, something happens […]
Advice
Aries: Some people will reveal what they think or want, but others won’t.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Manny Jacinto, 37; Christina Perri, 38; John Stamos, 61; Bill Clinton, 78. Happy Birthday: Consistency matters. Formulate a plan and stick to it. How you structure your life and strive for equality will determine how others perceive and support your efforts. Think big, but take on only what’s possible. Delegate […]
Patient with hydrocephalus doesn’t want to consider a shunt
DEAR DR. ROACH: I am an 84-year-old woman who was recently diagnosed with hydrocephalus after an MRI scan. I understand that there isn’t any treatment besides a shunt. Do you have any recommendations? I do not want to go through this procedure. — R.R. ANSWER: Normal pressure hydrocephalus (NPH) is an uncommon problem most commonly […]
Aunt learns the reason behind nephew’s silence
DEAR ABBY: I am very close to my oldest sister’s three sons, especially “Lucas,” who is 38. He and I have communicated often and have seen each other (we live in different states) over the years. In a way, I have been his confidant. He knows I love him like a son. Lucas is a […]
Aquarius: A space to work on projects that bring you joy or help you generate cash will be energizing.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Austin Butler, 33; Tammy Townsend, 54; Donnie Wahlberg, 55; Robert De Niro, 81. Happy Birthday: Establish what you want and how you will make it happen. Don’t let uncertainty come between you and success. Surround yourself with movers, shakers, doers and innovators, and it will inspire and motivate you to […]
Friendship with boss came with steep emotional toll
DEAR ABBY: Fifteen years ago, my partner and I moved to a new community, befriending a neighbor whose initial kindness and generosity impressed us greatly. When the neighbor learned I was unemployed, his influence enabled me to secure a position with his company. In a professional setting, however, the neighbor revealed a personality that was […]
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): enhance the relationships you have with friends and family.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Charlie Gillespie, 23; Keke Palmer, 28; Macaulay Culkin, 41; Melissa McCarthy, 51. Happy Birthday: Gravitate toward what’s doable this year instead of trying to do the impossible. Look for opportunities, and bring about change that is productive and tied to your long-term goals. Speak up, and consider taking a unique […]
Mother makes little effort to meet people after move
DEAR ABBY: My mother, who is 69, recently moved close to where my wife and I live to be near us as she ages. On the whole, this has been great for all of us. Mom is in good health and still very active. She walks every day and takes care of her house and […]
Compression of a nerve occurs after lifting too much weight
DEAR DR. ROACH: I am an 81-year-old male in good health. Four months ago, I was diagnosed with meralgia paresthetica, a compression of the lateral femoral cutaneous nerve. I believe this occurred when I did a leg press on an exercise machine that had way too much weight for me. This resulted in a numb […]
Capricorn: A day trip or meeting with someone who inspires you will impact your subsequent actions.
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Cameron Monaghan, 31; Steve Carell, 62; Angela Bassett, 66; Madonna, 66. Happy Birthday: Pay attention to how you present yourself and your skills this year. Manufacture the persona you want others to acknowledge, and maintain consistency. Everything will fall into place. A lack of confidence or inability to believe in […]