DEAR DR. ROACH: I have allergies and am congested a lot at night. I have read about over-the-counter clips and adhesive tapes. Would they help me breathe better? Are they safe for the long term? — M.V.M. ANSWER: There are many different types of external devices that are designed to open the nasal passages during […]
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Divorcing mom is grateful for new man's friendship
DEAR ABBY: A year ago my 13-year marriage fell apart. My husband, “Rick,” will be spending the next six years in prison. I am 32 and have two boys, ages 13 and 15. The last year has been pretty tough for all of us. I’ve been learning how to be both mother and father to […]
Wife can no longer endure vicious tales of man's ex wife
DEAR ABBY: I have been with my husband for five years, and we have two children together. It’s my husband’s second marriage and my first. He and his first wife, “Gretchen,” had no kids, but they did have a long and messy divorce. She and her family live in the same small town as we […]
What measurements trigger surgery for aneurysm?
DEAR DR. ROACH: I am a 68-year-old male in good health with a 3.3-centimeter aneurysm in my internal iliac artery. I have no symptoms. It was 1.9 cm eight years ago. My physician says that an aneurysm measuring over 3 cm requires surgical intervention. I have looked at recent studies that say an aneurysm measuring […]
Cancer: Don't be afraid to share ideas
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Taylor Swift, 29; Jamie Foxx, 51; Wendie Malick, 68; Christopher Plummer, 89. Happy Birthday: Your words will travel far if you are articulate, honest and sincere. Don’t be afraid to show your emotions and to fight for the underdog. Take it upon yourself to be the one to make a […]
Man retiring from military deploys new rules in marriage
DEAR ABBY: My husband of 10 years is in the process of retiring from the military and is now re-evaluating “procedures” and “policies” of everything — including our marriage. I’m trying to respect his needs in an effort to help him make sense of things. However, there are times when I feel some of his […]
Gemini: Be open about what you want
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Mayim Bialik, 43; Madchen Amick, 48; Regina Hall, 48; Jennifer Connelly, 48. Happy Birthday: Memories will surface urging you to reconnect with your past and those you haven’t seen for some time. Going back in time will give way to closure and the ability to use the experiences you have […]
Comparing the array of treatments for prostate cancer
DEAR DR. ROACH: I recently have been diagnosed with early prostate cancer. My Gleason score is 7. My urologist has informed me that he doesn’t think I am a good candidate for surgery, due to having atrial fibrillation. My radiation oncologist has recommended traditional radiation therapy. However, I am worried about the possible side effects. […]
Daughter's diabetic boyfriend must clean up his diet
DEAR DR. ROACH: My daughter has been dating a man who is diabetic but is not diligent about his diet. He is outwardly in good health, in that he runs competitively and bicycles in races, but sometimes he has blood sugar readings of 300 plus. He loves a diet of meat, sauces, and rich and […]
Taurus: Refuse to let emotions take over
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Mo’Nique, 51; Gary Dourdin, 52; Jermaine Jackson, 64; Bess Armstrong, 65. Happy Birthday: The past will help you figure out how best to move forward this year. Rely on your ability to see the big picture, but don’t let that lead to extravagance when moderation is required. Pick and choose […]