CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Tyra Banks, 45; Jay-Z, 49; Marisa Tomei, 54; Jeff Bridges, 69. Happy Birthday: Trust in what you know, not what someone tells you. You’ll have plenty of opportunities, but this is not the year to cut corners or rely on others. Only take on what’s important to you; see it […]
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Men's friendship changes when one finds a new job
DEAR ABBY: I thought I had a best friend. We got to know each other when we worked together for almost four years. He’s straight, I’m gay and we’re total opposites. However, he taught me how to fish and took me shooting at his family’s ranch; we would go to dinners/lunches and go to the […]
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Concerned parent seeks advice about unruly vaping teens
DEAR DR. ROACH: My teens keep smoking all these flavored, ethereal wand vapors. They claim it tastes good and even try tricks with the vapor. I’m a concerned parent as I hear these are dangerous magic cigarettes. I would like to know more about them and get your advice on how to deal with these […]
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Flu shot's influence on possible dementia is good, not bad
DEAR DR. ROACH: I’ve read mixed reviews as to whether the flu shot can contribute to Alzheimer’s disease. I’m anxious to see your input. — J.W. ANSWER: There is no reliable evidence, nor any good biological plausibility, that influenza vaccination increases the risk of either Alzheimer’s disease or other types of dementia. In fact, there […]
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Libra: Keep your emotions under control
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Amanda Seyfried, 33; Bruno Campos, 45; Holly Marie Combs, 45; Julianne Moore, 58. Happy Birthday: Bring it on and put it behind you. Tie up loose ends and embrace new beginnings. Make this year count by being productive, not destructive. You may be tempted to party and be indulgent, but […]
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Parents cancel holiday dinner when kids won't bury hatchet
DEAR ABBY: The holiday season is here, with the traditional family dinner get-togethers. Our problem is, our two children (ages 27 and 29) don’t like each other and rarely have contact during the year. This creates such stressful holiday meals that my wife and I would prefer to simply not have them. What words should […]
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Virgo: Adventure helps put dilemmas in perspective
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Aaron Rodgers, 35; Britney Spears, 37; Monica Seles, 45; Rena Sofer, 50. Happy Birthday: Don’t let a lack hold you back. If you want something, go after it wholeheartedly. Learn as you go, and be willing to put in the hours if it will help you achieve your dreams. Don’t […]
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Stay-at-home mom aching for friendship
DEAR ABBY: I am a shy, 30-year-old woman. I stay at home with our 10-month-old, primarily because of our family’s financial situation. I am gifted in the visual arts, but because I don’t have an art degree, I’m unable to pursue a professional job in the arts. Instead, I have been advertising to teach private […]
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Slipping grades make teen question planned career path
DEAR ABBY: I’m 17 and don’t know what I want to do with my life. When I was younger, I was sure I wanted to go into the field of law. It was something my parents also wanted me to do. I go to a very rigorous high school that’s known for being challenging, and […]
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Virgo: Don't let emotions ruin your day
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Vance Joy, 31; Sarah Silverman, 48; Nestor Carbonell, 51; Bette Midler, 73. Happy Birthday: Consider your reputation and how you can boost your star rating among your friends and colleagues. The sincerity and concern you offer others, along with practical solutions and support, will make a difference. Getting along will […]