Have you ever done something to someone either physically or mentally and they went and told someone? Of course you have, we all have. In some cases we think it’s unfair that we get punished for something especially if this person provoked you. Is it not said in Newtons 3rd law that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction? Why do people act so surprised when we strike back. Maybe they want someone to blame other than the supposed “victim.” Sometimes it just doesn’t make sense.