DEAR ABBY: When my friend became pregnant, her boyfriend didn’t stick around to be in the baby’s life. The three of us had gone to school together, and they started dating years later. When she asked me to be the child’s godmother, I said yes. The baby is 5 months old now. While I was […]
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Married woman can’t resist when lover wants to meet
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 36-year-old woman who is in a loveless marriage. We do not spend time together, nor do we have sex. For the past four years I have had an on-again, off-again affair with a guy from my church. He’s 10 years younger and everything I have ever wanted. My No. 1 problem […]
Strangers’ parenting advice may deserve consideration
DEAR ABBY: What do I say to people who give me unsolicited parenting advice or scold my daughter in public? I would never interfere with another parent or direct a child who isn’t in my care. What gives these people the right to barge into someone else’s life in such a way? I have been […]
Wife of hypercritical husband must create her own space
DEAR ABBY: My husband is extremely critical of others. He almost never has anything nice to say about anyone. He badmouths his co-workers, friends, family members and strangers. We don’t have friends anymore because he doesn’t want to be around them. I don’t understand his type of personality. He thinks his way of thinking and […]
Writer adds warning to older women
DEAR ABBY: I’m writing this as a warning — especially to older women who get married a second time to someone with adult children. Please keep your own money separate, if at all possible. Throughout our long marriage, I trusted my second husband to do what he promised me and my relatives. He arranged very […]
Spanking crosses the line during sibling roughhousing
DEAR ABBY: My grandson ”Kyle” is in his early 20s, 6 foot 1 and weighs about 230. His sister is a very sweet 15-year-old and a devoted churchgoer. At a recent family get-together, they were goofing around and he got her down on the floor on her stomach, sat on her knees to hold her […]
Refuge after parents’ divorce turns into a prison for teen
DEAR ABBY: I’m 17 and have been in a relationship since I was 13 with the same person on and off. I have been with him since my parents divorced, so you might say he’s been my crutch for a long time. He makes it clear that without him I am an emotional mess. I […]
Keeping wealth quiet causes millionaire to suffer anxiety
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 29-year-old self-made millionaire who has spent the last decade saving and investing my middle-class income. I grew up dirt poor, so at 18 I left home with $5, went straight to work and never looked back. Recently, I’ve realized that I struggle to make friends for fear they’ll find out about […]
Breakdown in communications has serious, lasting consequences
DEAR ABBY: I am a junior in high school. Last year, a guy I have known for two years began showing a sexual interest in me. I rejected his advances. Last week, he began expressing his interest again, letting me know he wanted to have sex. He invited me to study — only study — […]
Revenge after breakup should be put on hold
DEAR ABBY: Recently a guy I’ve known for more than a year decided it would be best for us to part ways. Before Christmas, I had asked what he would like for Christmas. His response was, ”I don’t want anything for Christmas — I want you.” A couple of weeks later, he told me the […]