DEAR ABBY: I’m a 25-year-old woman who is involved in a serious relationship with a wonderful man. We’ve been together for about three months and we’re very much in love. My problem: I think I’m obsessed with him. I am happy only when we spend time together. When we’re not, I feel sad and alone. […]
Dear Abby
Boys with their funny looks are a persistent fact of life
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 12-year-old girl with a big problem. My class recently learned about reproduction. All of the girls accepted it in a mature manner, but it’s another story with the boys. Now all the boys look at me funny when I walk through the hall. It makes me feel awkward. Should I ignore […]
Nurturing godmother should step back from caregiver role
DEAR ABBY: I’m a 23-year-old woman who has been helping to raise my three adorable godchildren over the last few years. Their mother is also 23. She became pregnant with her oldest when she was 15. She’s a young single mother, unprepared for the full responsibility, so I have stepped in. When they were babies, […]
Couple flirts with marriage for a second time around
DEAR ABBY: Do you have any data on the success of remarrying your ex-spouse? After being married to my husband for 25 years, we divorced due to his infidelity. We have been divorced for eight years and have had no contact. A family member’s funeral brought us face-to-face again, and we have been in touch […]
Woman can’t stop the affair she started two years ago
DEAR ABBY: How do I get out of an affair that has been going on for two years? I started it at a bad time in my life — fights with my husband, the pressure of having three young kids, and a business we co-owned that was in financial difficulty. I know what I did […]
Tattoo hullabaloo obscures wedding’s deeper meaning
DEAR ABBY: You told “No Ink in Louisville” (Aug. 24) that her friend cared more about getting a tattoo than the feelings of the bride-to-be, and her “little sister” should have postponed getting one until after the wedding. I think “No Ink” was insensitive on several counts. If she truly loves her dear friend, why […]
Father refuses to condone teen drinking party at home
DEAR ABBY: My son, “Jason,” is a 17-year-old high school senior honor student. My wife and I have managed to establish a fairly open relationship with our children; we encourage honesty and have attempted to establish mutual respect. Recently, Jason asked if he could have seven or eight friends over to drink. My wife, reasoning […]
Transporting crematory ashes: Urn must pass security screening
DEAR ABBY: My wife recently died of lung cancer. While the family would like her ashes buried at the family plot, it was my wife’s wish for her remains to be scattered in a favorite location far away. Family members are trying to discourage me by raising all sorts of issues. Abby, is there any […]
Girl rebels when multitasking mom gets behind the wheel
DEAR ABBY: My mother does other things while she’s driving, and it’s a big problem for me. I only just got legal to be in the front seat (I’m 13). I don’t want to be in the car with her. She does things like put on lip liner and lip gloss and texts while she […]
First love fills young teen with big questions, doubts
DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend “Chucky” and I have been together for a while and things are starting to get serious. I’m 15 and he’s almost 18. I’m falling in love with him, which has never happened with any other guy. I really think he’s “The One.” Chucky proposed, but it isn’t official yet. I still […]