DEAR ABBY: I have a guy friend who goes from girl to girl constantly. People talk about what a player he is and say he doesn’t really like the women he’s dating. He has been called desperate — among other things. None of this ever gets to him. Even though we are just close friends, […]
Advice
Wealthy man’s companion is shut out of family holidays
DEAR ABBY: I am a platonic friend and part-time caregiver of a wealthy gentleman. I now reside in his residence out of necessity. We respect each other, and neither of us intends to be anything more than friends. My problem is his family. They know I exist, but refuse to get to know me. They […]
People of all ages are susceptible to HPV infection
DEAR DR. ROACH: I read your recent column stating that the HPV vaccine is recommended up to age 45. Are people older than 45 years no longer susceptible to HPV? Asking for a 52-year-old friend (who thinks he’s Wolverine). — C.F. ANSWER: Wolverine has a mutant healing ability (that’s how he was able to survive […]
Leo: Think about situations before acting
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Lucy Hale, 30; Kevin McHale, 31; Diablo Cody, 41; Boy George, 58. Happy Birthday: Think big, but when making a commitment or taking on something new, slow down and take baby steps. Don’t feel pressured by what others do or say. Move forward at your own pace, and choose the […]
Boyfriend admits being attracted to woman’s brother
DEAR ABBY: I am a gay male. My sister, “Cate,” is in what appears outwardly to be a committed relationship, but I know for a fact it isn’t. Her boyfriend, “Darren,” invited me out for coffee a few days ago, and while he was discussing some of their relationship troubles, he told me he isn’t […]
Cancer: Let creativity guide your path to positive changes
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Kat Dennings, 33; Chris Evans, 38; Tim Allen, 66; Stellan Skarsgard, 68. Happy Birthday: Learn as you go. Don’t feel you have to rush if you aren’t ready or sure which way to turn. Question what others do or say. How you react will determine the type of response you […]
How do you find prostate cancer without screening for it?
DEAR DR. ROACH: Every year, I used to get a physical, which included a prostate exam as well as blood tests with PSA. When my doctor retired, I had a hard time finding a new one I liked. It has been three or four years since my prostate was checked, but my new doctor doesn’t […]
Heart wall can thicken in response to high blood pressure
DEAR DR. ROACH: What is the difference between eccentric LVH and concentric LVH? Which one is more dangerous and needs more attention? My mother was diagnosed with severe eccentric LVH for body surface area with adequate systolic and diastolic functions. What does that mean? — C.F. ANSWER: The left ventricle is the chamber of the […]
Gemini: Spend time with family and encourage togetherness
CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Dave Franco, 34; Robyn, 40; Scott Thompson, 60; Timothy Busfield, 62. Happy Birthday: Concentrate on your relationships this year. Learn from experience, and choose to take your time when dealing with emotional issues. Spending unnecessarily or for the wrong reason should be dealt with quickly in order to ease stress. […]
Old friend’s new lifestyle alters time spent together
DEAR ABBY: My wife, “Libby’s,” dearest friend of 20 years, “Melanie,” has changed her lifestyle. Melanie and her husband have become “swingers.” Now when Libby meets her socially, all Melanie can talk about is her new lifestyle — complete with photos. Plus Melanie is very interested in meeting men when they are out together. I […]