DEAR ABBY: A member of my gym brings her newborn in with her every morning. She sets the carrier down next to her treadmill, puts in her earplugs and runs. The baby usually cries on and off, but today he cried nonstop during my entire 20-minute workout. It drove me crazy. I’m a mom, too. […]
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Tips on hotel etiquette turn couple into pampered guests
DEAR ABBY: My wife and I recently returned from a vacation where we had a disagreement regarding hotel service and towels. Regarding the towels, my wife thinks we should hang them to dry daily for reuse later. I say the cost of washing the towels is included in the price of the room, and I […]
Bunnies bought for easter often wind up in shelters
DEAR ABBY: Could you please reprint a letter you ran a few years ago about the dangers of purchasing a pet rabbit for children at Easter? As a rabbit owner for eight years, I’m all too familiar with the misconceptions and ridiculous theories associated with these delightful creatures. Every point in that letter rang true […]
Quarrelsome couple take hostility to new heights
DEAR ABBY: We have been friends with “The Bickersons” for quite some time. They never have a kind word to say to each other. Mr. B. now has a terminal illness, and you would think they’d be kinder to each other at a time like this. On the contrary, their fights are more groundless and […]
Open gay man isn’t happy being his partner’s secret
DEAR ABBY: I am a 25-year-old gay man who has been in a relationship for two years with a guy who just turned 30. My problem is he has not yet told his family about me. He has been around my family, and they view him as part of the family. I want the same […]
Open minds are useful when discussing God with kids
DEAR ABBY: I would like to respond to “Agnostic Dad in South Carolina” (Feb. 16), who wondered about how to answer the inevitable “Is there a God?” question his children will ask. My parents had strong but differing Christian faiths. They compromised when bringing us up, and we went to the church nearest our home […]
Stopping for funeral cortege is the customary thing to do
DEAR ABBY: For years I have wondered about this every time I have gone to a funeral and have ridden in the procession to the cemetery. As the procession travels to the cemetery, all cars and trucks pull over and stop. That custom strikes me as very touching. I was in another procession last week, […]
Don’t worry about the future: Prom event may open girl’s eyes
DEAR ABBY: I am currently deployed in Afghanistan. My best friend’s little sister, “Brittany,” has had a crush on me for years. She has been straightforward about what she wants — marriage, kids, white picket fence, etc. She has always been like a little sister, so it has been awkward. I thought it was weird […]
Senior wanting small college confronts big issue at home
DEAR ABBY: I am a high school senior who has been filling out applications for college. I have found a few small liberal arts colleges I’d love to attend, and I have a favorite. My problem: My father has been out of work for quite some time. He has applied for a job at a […]
Mother spills son’s secret and is renounced in return
DEAR ABBY: My son has refused to speak to me ever again because his girlfriend asked me if he had another child from a previous relationship. I didn’t think it was right to lie to her, so I told her the truth about his daughter. My son called me yesterday and told me I was […]